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.....No direct eye contact. The eyes have lashes that stimulate, THAT. That..who will not suffer insolence from a lesser God. A lesser God with one horn protruding.
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I'm very sensitive. During oral direct licking just hurts, and fingers... the thought makes me shudder. Sucking though, that is glorious and the only thing that works for me. I have a toy that mimics that and she's my best friend. With vibrators I cannot (usually) put them directly on my clit, I have to put them just above.

My second husband, who has a long track record with women, complains about it. I'm kind of glad to read there are other women in a similar boat, he had me feeling like a freak of nature.
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Sorry to hear that. My wife's clitoris is sensitive too but in a good way. With direct clitoral stimulation she will reach orgasm in under 3 minutes. With a little more foreplay or sometimes with oral, she will orgasm under 1 minute. Lucky me. The problem is that she orgasms too quickly so that I cannot enjoy what I am doing to her most times. Once she orgasms, I cannot touch her clitoris again for about 5-10 minutes. She has to push me away as she is orgasming because her clitoris becomes super sensitive. We gave up on intercoures about 20 years ago because she is the female version of a premature ejaculator. As a result we have a lot of foreplay because once I start making her orgasm, it is over with quickly and she needs time to recover.

At one time my wife behaved similar to yours and sometimes still does. As soon as I tried to get near her vagina she would push my hand or heat away because she was extremely sensitive and would jump at my touch. She adapted and I have to start off gently and near but not touching her clitoris and work my way to it slowly. She made an effort to control it and now only rarely complains that it hurts or is too sensitive. When I touch her she jumps as if lightning hit her unless we get her clitoris used to it over time. Our girlfriend did not have sensitive clitoris. It took her a half hour or more to orgasm, even when using a vibrator. My wife has spoiled me for other women who make me work long and hard to give them an orgasm.

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But that's true with everyone... no one is the same. Some men love their balls played with, tugged on etc. my husband would have a stroke if I did that to him.
Perhaps, but I think most men don't NEED that stimulation to orgasm. I think for most men the same types of stimulation will get them there. Women, on the other hand, vary greatly from one another. With no guidance, it can be a daunting task bringing someone new to O if they don't communicate their needs.

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I have a vibrator that is U-shaped which is great for indirect clitoris stimulation. I would highly recommend it for ladies on top position. Just tuck it in there and ride it out. Lol. I would have to say that mine is especially sensitive right after an orgasm.

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Perhaps, but I think most men don't NEED that stimulation to orgasm. I think for most men the same types of stimulation will get them there. Women, on the other hand, vary greatly from one another. With no guidance, it can be a daunting task bringing someone new to O if they don't communicate their needs.

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The problem is many women don't know their needs. Many women are raised and taught a certain thing about their bodies especially their vagina. I know my needs because I've experimented with myself, I've masterbated, I've learned how to pleasure myself. Many women don't do this. Many girls are raised to think this is wrong and bad and many girls are ashamed of their vagina or think it's ugly or whatever. Here comes the feminist in me...
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The problem is many women don't know their needs. Many women are raised and taught a certain thing about their bodies especially their vagina. I know my needs because I've experimented with myself, I've masterbated, I've learned how to pleasure myself. Many women don't do this. Many girls are raised to think this is wrong and bad and many girls are ashamed of their vagina or think it's ugly or whatever. Here comes the feminist in me...
I absolutely agree with you, and I have no idea why so many women are like that. Not to be crass, but if I had a vulva/vagina I'd never leave the house!

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I'm kind of the same way. I feel more masculine when I can make my partner cum than when I'm cumming in her.
I do believe that that is the definition of a real man.
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I do believe that that is the definition of a real man.
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My wife seems not enjoying clit licking either, but if just PIV I will be finished way earlier than she will. Tragic!

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