Ladies, regarding the physical attraction...
- Does a guy have to bee VERY fit to turn you on? [Obvious abs, biceps, triceps...??]
- What's the level of fitness does he need to have for you to feel physically attracted to him?
- If you had to choose between the face and the body, which one would matter the most to you?
I've realized that "too fit" guys don't turn me on more than "normal fit" guys.
(I won't be talking about sluggish guys as I'm not attracted to them most of the times - although I've dated 'out-of-shape' guys in the past as their character appealed to me more than their body).
Back to the topic, too much fitness turns me off..or at least ...doesn't turn me on as much as it's expected.
For example, guy 1 is very fit (sorry it's posted 2 times, I didn't know how to delete it.)...but it doesn't turn me on as much as guys 2 or 3. They are less fit than the first one, but I find them more appealing.
There is something cold about "too fit" guys that I can't describe why I don't feel very sexually attracted by them. It kind of surprises me that some of my girlfriends are excited/turned on by VERY fit guys and they even follow pages of hot guys on Instagram.
Sure, they are good to look at and it would be a plus to date a very fit guy, but I wouldn't choose them over normally fit guys.
Plus, the face matters MORE to me than the body. I want to look at someone whose face I LOVE. Eye contact, teeth and the shape of the face matters to me more than the body itself.