12-24-2011, 02:21 AM
Join Date: Nov 2011
| | troubled marriage,please help
He met me at a bar in early 2004 with whom he claimed was love at first sight.he asked for my phone number and I gave it to him saying if you can memorize it then call.he called the next day and we dated for a while soon getting engaged in December 2005
but at the same time he used to sexually harrass women who rejected him or would get verbally abusive and call them the C word.at his workplace
he would flirt and hit on plenty of women while being engaged and while dating me
He wanted a child as quickly as possible.
Before mariage he would hold hands and talk but after marriage everything has drastically changed.
And the same year pictures surfaced of him and a younger looking girl sitting on his lap while he was showing off his wedding ring to the camera!
In 2007 also he got platonic with a girl half his age by repeatedly kissing her on the head or cheeks or hugging her or lifting her up in his arms..
i saw pictures of him(of 4 years ago the year we got married) with a skimpy clad girl sitting on his lap while he with his shirt off was showing his wedding ring to the camera and another was him sitting with three skimpy clad blond girls(one of the three was the girl who sat on his lap). they can't be fans as girls don't walk wearing bustiers in hotels or restaurants.
however he did get a tattoo of his my name early in 2007.
He had his first baby,a daughter in July 2008 which changed him a bit.
But In June 2011(now hes 31) he thrashed his 24 year old friend and colleague by revealing her sexual antics on radio,the number of men he knows she slept with and who's she sleeping with while hes talking and in August he said he's a fan of the same friend which this girl and my cousin were great friends fir the last 5 years.i saw a picture of him posing very closely with her(arm on her waist,body tilted) which was not of his workplace,it looked like they were going somewhere,
Only during this interview when he was angry with his colleague he mentioned me saying how much his in laws care for him,how much i love him and what he put me through when he overdosed on drugs
And a recent photograph and video came out showing him with a blonde girl with whom he was cuddling from behind,touching her head or face or bending to kiss her head and wrapped his arms aound her chest,and was laughing and joking.It was taken at a restaurant as i could make out.
the person had made a video of it refused to mention where she put up the video
and when i go to watch him perform at the theater he goes and kisses me in the crowd when finished.even before he had an affair with his colleague he would kiss me in the crowd after he finished performing.
why he kissed me then???for show??
wat sort of marriage is this?
he is wealthy.he recently bought the front row of a theater in an auction.
He is a very good father though.and our daughter is very attached to him.he makes her sit on his shoulders while they went to the zoo.he plays with her,looks after her drawings,preschool studies,teaches her swimming and is always takes her in his arms.They eat together,sit together and are very close to each other.My daughter also loves him very much.she has given him chains saying 'i love you daddy' and all.
when she was born he got her name and birthdate along with a rose etched on his arm.He proudly displays that tattoo but doesnt bother to show mine now at all.
we dont even talk much more so in public.when i go with him to events he gets busy with his colleagues children or remains quiet,looks here and there.even people and critics since we acted in a documentary in which he was shown bonding with hi family call our chemistry contrived,boring fluff and unnatural.
once there was a fancy dinner where i went with him.even there he didnt get his pictures clicked wth me even once.when we were leaving only then he i was caught with him on camera.he would leave me abruptly and would chat with other people.
even when we pose for pictures together theres not much of a contact like i hold him by his arm sometimes or shift towards him for pictures but,he holds other women like his close female colleague by her waist but not with me.
whats is this going on???
no love at all and will i get dumped?