Re: Seeking female perspective
I agree that women who don't have women friends are bad bets in general. The men they seek attention from can't trust them and the women they won't condescend to talk to don't like or trust them. Broad brush, I know, but my experience.
Anyway, your WW is making decisions for herself and you should be making decisions for yourself. Her decisions result in her walking all over you as she declares the right to be married and have boyfriends. Your decisions can include your refusal to live your life this way.