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post #16 of 21 (permalink) Old 03-13-2017, 11:11 AM Thread Starter
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I'll apologize for being harsh here but if she had 2 affairs, possibly 3, then it's not sex she isn't interested in it's sex with you.

Answer: you are not being to harsh. She has given me several different reasons for not having interest in sex with me but you sure are right that it is just with me that she don't want to.

I used to hope that my XW would have an affair and then I'd know that it was just me she wasn't interested in, but she admitted during MC that she had never been interested in any physical relationship.

Answer: what would you have preferred it to be?



I presume her medical and mental health issues were OK when she was with he affairs. She should have thought about that before cheating ... twice!!
Answer: she had issues with both then too but not as bad as now. Sometimes she would use her medical issues to not do anything with me or me just to take care of her needs then tell me she couldn't do more while still having the same issue still be with them. She was never with both at the same time but it was during the same time period.

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it does not sound like she has a lot of respect for you let alone love you......she uses excuses for her actions and inactions...and you buy into it....you should bring her and let us to talk to her.....let her defend her actions to us. Remember you don't reward bad behavior, start to take away thinks she enjoys.
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I guess I once had hope that she could become her old self again.
Oh you poor, poor deluded soul....

This IS the real "her." A serial cheating POS.

What you remember was a ruse. You've been had.

“When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.” - Maya Angelou
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it does not sound like she has a lot of respect for you let alone love you......she uses excuses for her actions and inactions...and you buy into it....you should bring her and let us to talk to her.....let her defend her actions to us. Remember you don't reward bad behavior, start to take away thinks she enjoys.
She would sadly never stay and read any of it if it was directed at her.

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Oh you poor, poor deluded soul....

This IS the real "her." A serial cheating POS.

What you remember was a ruse. You've been had.
Good way to put it.

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My main thing when going to see my family in the spring is to strengthen my financial backup if needed so I can do this.
She just keep reminding me how much I need to get out of this now I need to make it happen.

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