Always keep in mind :
Most men like to watch porn and it is good to watch porn because you tend to explore various sexual positions. You shouldn't have gained access to his personal stuff. Try stepping into his shoe. Would you like him doing this no matter even if you dont like to watch porn and stuff ?
There are couples who like to watch porn together and it is quite a good idea.
Final verdict : dont try to hold him if he aint doing anything wrong. As a matter of fact, watching porn is not a crime or anything bad though.
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Spoken like a man, porn makes wives feel like ****. How would you feel if your wife would prefer to watch scantily clad or naked males with big packages strutting their stuff than spend that time with you or giving you her time or body?
I don't think most males realize the damage porn does to a marriage and to the wife's self esteem.
My H was into this when he was younger, but decided to go cold turkey as he saw the problems with it, it can become an huge addictive problem. He has an addictive personality so drugs and porn he avoided, (though didn't manage with alcohol).
Quite frankly there should be no such thing as privacy in this regard, it's allowing OW by stealth and depends to what extent the H is engaged with it, it's like having an OW in your marriage. Esp nowadays with the online cams, etc, where do men draw the line.
if I find that kind of **** on my H phone, or anywhere, then I probably would dump him that is how strongly I feel about it. For men saying they need it it is just a sorry excuse for not having any self -control.
So instead of giving the OP a hard time about invading his privacy, blah blah blah, what about giving constructive advice about what not to do in a marriage. OP imo opinion you did nothing wrong, your H needs to know how the porn makes you feel and how it is taking away from the marriage relations, how you feel you have to compete with OW who are sexier, etc than you.
Perhaps you should play him at his own game, get yourself some nice centerfolds, some Mad Mike raunchy dancers etc and see how he feels about how your spread your affections.