I don't think you're overreacting at all.
It's tough keeping house and I don't think that men really realize how hard it is until they have to do it themselves.
How nice it is to come home to the smell of a nice supper, dinner on the table, clean carpets, clean laundry. All the towels are folded nicely in the cupboards in the bathroom with a nice clean fresh one for them every morning. Their shirts are all nice and clean for the next days work, hung up in the closet, socks are all folded in the drawers, clean undies, etc.
They go to the kitchen cupboard and have clean glasses to drink from, the refrigerator is full of food, their lunches are packed all set to go when they leave for work in the morning.
When they go to bed, the bed is made, sheets are clean, pillowcases smell all nice and fresh...AHHHHH!!!!
Leave them alone for a minute and they're on the internet.
Leave them alone for a month and they're saying ARGHHHHHH!!!!!!!
I've got a pretty good guy though...leave him alone for a month and although he misses his clean house he also tries to:
Check the oil in the car, change the oil, check the tires, (and all other car maintenance), cut the grass, shovel the sidewalk, paint the front steps, fix the crack in the wall, fix the falling off wallpaper, unplug the toilet, unplug the sink, put the falling door back on his hinges, and all other maintenance work around the house while looking pretty darned good doing it.
If he could get all of the above done in a month..it'd be a miracle..but he tries..once you can get him off the net!!