I'm 23 years old and have been in relationship with a narcissist since 4yrs.
I recently discovered that I am living with a narcissist. I love him a lot. At the same time, I am not able to tolerate his abuses(emotional and physical to some extent) towards me anymore. I want to help him too. To relieve him off his condition. But, feels like I'm losing myself somewhere along the line.
Please advice me if a narcissist can ever change? Am i investing my time into something that can never happen?
He never appreciates me for anything good I do. Always manages to insult n make an issue even out of smallest of my mistakes. His major mistakes are not even acknowledged as mistakes! I wil b blamed n punished for his mistakes as well! My tears,pain,suffering have no value. His pain is all that matters to him.
But at times he shows love n care, I start to hope that things would improve. They never do. Just then he gets back to his old habit. what ever happens anywhere, will always b my misake. But I still end up going back to him at the slightest display of affection!
I want to get away from away from him n I restrain myself from going away from him!Totally confused! Please help!!
I recently discovered that I am living with a narcissist. I love him a lot. At the same time, I am not able to tolerate his abuses(emotional and physical to some extent) towards me anymore. I want to help him too. To relieve him off his condition. But, feels like I'm losing myself somewhere along the line.
Please advice me if a narcissist can ever change? Am i investing my time into something that can never happen?
He never appreciates me for anything good I do. Always manages to insult n make an issue even out of smallest of my mistakes. His major mistakes are not even acknowledged as mistakes! I wil b blamed n punished for his mistakes as well! My tears,pain,suffering have no value. His pain is all that matters to him.
But at times he shows love n care, I start to hope that things would improve. They never do. Just then he gets back to his old habit. what ever happens anywhere, will always b my misake. But I still end up going back to him at the slightest display of affection!
I want to get away from away from him n I restrain myself from going away from him!Totally confused! Please help!!