My husband has been on this forum for some time now, I'm almost too scared to read what he has wrote about me. All I know is that I've tried so hard to be supportive of him but everytime when things are going good he thinks of an excuse to mess everything up! I have to brace myself everytime! He always has reservations about our marriage, and I'm climbing mountains just to make him happy but it never seems to be enough. I cook for him, I keep our house clean for him, I've never turned him down when he wants me, but it's never enough for him! And I don't believe that he has a lower sex drive either. I don't know where it all goes, some days he's sooo passionate then other days he pushes me away. I'm so tired of the rollercoaster ride and the games he plays.
All I ask is from him is to stop pushing me away and doubting us! It's like he doesn't care how I feel and only cares about himself. He doesn't even give me a chance to listen to him. He just shuts off and hides in his room and I have to drag him to bed all the time. I know I haven't been supportive of him before but I've changed. I just wish he can forgive me. I know I shouldn't be here because I promised him but I'm so desperate now. Maybe you can talk some sense into him.
He just doesn't listen to me!
All I ask is from him is to stop pushing me away and doubting us! It's like he doesn't care how I feel and only cares about himself. He doesn't even give me a chance to listen to him. He just shuts off and hides in his room and I have to drag him to bed all the time. I know I haven't been supportive of him before but I've changed. I just wish he can forgive me. I know I shouldn't be here because I promised him but I'm so desperate now. Maybe you can talk some sense into him.
He just doesn't listen to me!