Re: DH cheated...I talked with other woman
Did you have the house before you married? If so it is not part of comunity property. I would make sure that you know what his financial situation is before making a move.
If he has a job and travels does he have out of town bank account? What about the amount of money he has spent pusuing thios wopman. If he paid for trips to meet her that is use of marital assets.
Although you live in a no fault community property state, the judge has a considerable amount of desecration when it comes to splitting the property.
If he has been cheating throughout the marriage, has spent time and money on the the OW that has a bearing on the spilt.
Don't throw him out until you get evidence about the finances. Do your homework and plan. The house is yours but he has a right to live there because it is his home. You can ask him to leave.
Start the divorce so that you get him out ASAP. Why are you concerned about someone who cares so little for yopu?
Going to a paster? He will tell you to work on it. You know that and that may be why you will go. But it is fruitless. If you are a believer then go to the bible.
The marriage was never true and he was cheating. A kind and loving God is suffering along with you. He is asking you to put yourself in his hands and be brave.
He is asking you to go directly to Him with your troubles. Trust Him to deliver on his promise.
"Jesus answered and said unto them, Verily I say unto you, If ye have faith, and doubt not, ye shall not only do this which is done to the fig tree, but also if ye shall say unto this mountain, Be thou removed, and be thou cast into the sea; it shall be done." Matthew 12:21
"And he said, Come. And when Peter came down out of the ship, he walked on the water, to go to Jesus.
But when he saw the wind boisterous, he was afraid; and beginning to sink, he cried, saying, Lord, save me.
And immediately Jesus stretched forth his hand, and caught him, and said unto him, O you of little faith, why did you doubt?" Matthew 14 29:31
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Last edited by Catherine602; 01-21-2012 at 11:56 PM.