Well, I caught DH texting and calling an ex-lover. I made him call and break it off while I listened. She was angry, of course. She said that he had been lying to her for 7 years (DH and I have only been married 2 1/2 years). She said he'd been lying to her, me, and his kids. She spoke kindly to me, and told me she was sorry all of this had happened. Well, after they hung up
DH told me that they had just been texting and calling since we got married, and not having sex (yeah, right.)
So...guess what I did....I texted the other woman myself. I know that I probably shouldn't have done that, but it was a real eye opener. We did not slam each other, we were courteous to each other. She opened my eyes to a lot of things. Asked me to forgive her, and said she could finally let him go. She said that God must have meant for it to happen this way, so could get her life back. She sounded very sincere. Do you think I can believe what she said?
DH told me that they had just been texting and calling since we got married, and not having sex (yeah, right.)
So...guess what I did....I texted the other woman myself. I know that I probably shouldn't have done that, but it was a real eye opener. We did not slam each other, we were courteous to each other. She opened my eyes to a lot of things. Asked me to forgive her, and said she could finally let him go. She said that God must have meant for it to happen this way, so could get her life back. She sounded very sincere. Do you think I can believe what she said?