My husband has been going through a rough spot. So have I but my problems are nothing compared to his. He had been so distant. I asked and asked him to talk to me. But like many people he bottled it up inside. Now that it is out it is a big problem.
He is very unhappy with his life. He was adopted and suddenly decided to reach out to these people. It did not seem to answer any of his questions and only made things worse. He is so closed off and unhappy. I worry about him feeling rejected. I tell him it is no reflection on him, but he is still very upset.
He feels that I am a major stress factor in his life because I am negative and lazy. I caused him problems with his best friend/roommate "I kicked best friends girlfriend out for getting mouthy to me."
He does not like that I do not do much around the house. I work and simply do not feel like cleaning anything when I get home Not that the house is gross or anything, but I hardly ever have time to fold laundry and stuff. I am a sleepy head:sleeping:. Mostly he says it is my negativity and complaining about coworkers.
My goal is to make things better. He has stress and I have stress but I think I can deal with my stress so it does not cause havoc in our marriage. My stress has mostly to do with my child not wanting to come on his visitations. It;s been hurtful, but nothing like what hubby is going through I am sure. I just want to be a better wife!
He is very unhappy with his life. He was adopted and suddenly decided to reach out to these people. It did not seem to answer any of his questions and only made things worse. He is so closed off and unhappy. I worry about him feeling rejected. I tell him it is no reflection on him, but he is still very upset.
He feels that I am a major stress factor in his life because I am negative and lazy. I caused him problems with his best friend/roommate "I kicked best friends girlfriend out for getting mouthy to me."
He does not like that I do not do much around the house. I work and simply do not feel like cleaning anything when I get home Not that the house is gross or anything, but I hardly ever have time to fold laundry and stuff. I am a sleepy head:sleeping:. Mostly he says it is my negativity and complaining about coworkers.
My goal is to make things better. He has stress and I have stress but I think I can deal with my stress so it does not cause havoc in our marriage. My stress has mostly to do with my child not wanting to come on his visitations. It;s been hurtful, but nothing like what hubby is going through I am sure. I just want to be a better wife!