DH told me he wants me to be romantic, like surprise him by getting dressed up, or take him on a date. He likes it when I buy him stuff without having a reason, and I even have to initiate sex. And even when I start stuff he never does anything to get me turned on... I said something to him about wanting him to be romantic he gets upset tells me he's sorry or he'll just shut down and not talk to me again.
On top of all that if I say something about wanting him to initiate sex we end up not having sex.
When we were dating he couldn't keep his hands off of me, and he was romantic.
He constantly complains about not spending time with me or how the weekend goes by too fast. But he sits around playing a video game during his free time.
Our 3 yr marriage anniversary is coming up and we don't have any money to do anything then, or for V-day or any other event coming up like my birthday.
I went all out for his last birthday but for mine he didn't and this yr we don't have money. I told him that I'm bummed that we can't do anything and he basically ignored me and played his game.
What should I do? I don't want to feel like my husband doesn't care but that's how I feel. Does anyone have any advice?
On top of all that if I say something about wanting him to initiate sex we end up not having sex.
When we were dating he couldn't keep his hands off of me, and he was romantic.
He constantly complains about not spending time with me or how the weekend goes by too fast. But he sits around playing a video game during his free time.
Our 3 yr marriage anniversary is coming up and we don't have any money to do anything then, or for V-day or any other event coming up like my birthday.
I went all out for his last birthday but for mine he didn't and this yr we don't have money. I told him that I'm bummed that we can't do anything and he basically ignored me and played his game.
What should I do? I don't want to feel like my husband doesn't care but that's how I feel. Does anyone have any advice?