Re: Need Advice, Do you think my husband is cheating?
My husband had an EA for probably about a year, before I started to realize it. One of the things he did was take off his ring and "forget" it. He also was texting alot, and instead of on his laptop down stairs was on his computer upstairs, and would change screens when I came in the room. He turned 51 and was also having plumbing problems: we got cialis and he could do it. NOW, after telling you all this, it does sound like your man is at least getting his ego stroked by another woman, if not an affair, emotional or physical. BUT we fixed it! We are good now, it was a struggle to fix, and is still in process. What happened to him was a mid life crisis. He was looking at some of what he saw as failures and tied me up in that mess, because he felt life had not fulfilled what he thought he should have had/done so far. Of course a new woman listened better, and poor babied him, and he NEVER discussed those things he discussed with her, with me. So I do think yes your husband is having some sort of affair, it may not be sexual yet. And he will not admit it until you have some sort of proof, again please believe me. When I first started reading your story I though it was me, I am 48 my hubs 51. It is the age, no excuse mind you, but it happens so much. Try looking at your husbands computer history, and try to get a look at his phone, if he keeps no old emails and clears the computer and phone history, he is hiding something. Good luck to you
Sorry one more thing, my husband no longer needs cialis with me anymore, we are doing great. But if he takes cialis, now it is because we both want an extended session and to make sure that he will be "taken care of".
Last edited by bellamaxjoy; 02-02-2012 at 01:28 PM.
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