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post #16 of 22 (permalink) Old 02-03-2012, 03:31 PM
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Re: MY husband said he wish i would die

People who love and respect each other don't do the things you write about.
He is scum.

PS: All the best for your little boy on Monday.. and to you.

Hope your getting support from your family and friends.

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post #17 of 22 (permalink) Old 02-03-2012, 09:57 PM
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Re: MY husband said he wish i would die

I would move on.

Do what is best for your family (well being; health; and happiness).

You have your answers. I did see one good thing in your post about him.
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post #18 of 22 (permalink) Old 02-13-2012, 03:48 AM
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well you did marry this man so sad considering you seem like such a nice woman. I wish you best of luck and hope you can meet someone who treats you like you deserve to be treated.
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post #19 of 22 (permalink) Old 02-29-2012, 03:10 PM
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Re: MY husband said he wish i would die

I want to commend you on protecting your children above all else. In all this mess and lies and anger, you thought enough of your children to realize this was an environment they should not have to grow up in.

The reason this touched me is because I was raised in a house with a man like your husband. My father was verbally and physically abusive to us children. He was always angry and we had to walk on eggshells. He called us horrible names and made our lives hell. My mother never did a thing to help us kids. Now I am 44, brother is 40, sister is 33 and we all can't stand to visit my parents and they get angry at us and wonder why. My father's exact words: "I have three children who don't want anything to do with me, WHAT IS WRONG WITH THEM?"

And my mother, to this day, puts his feelings above ours and tries to guilt us into kissing my dad's ass. So again, I am glad you are being a good mother even though your world is spiralling out of control.

In my experience, people like your husband (bullies) are not willing to change. It is everyone else around them that should change to fit their world. Getting help for yourself will do wonders. I had 5 years of therapy and was given so many tools to work with. You need to get to know yourself. Living with bullies like him will make you lose your self identity because you are always doing things to make him happy that you forget that you need to be happy too.

I wish you love and luck my friend.
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post #20 of 22 (permalink) Old 03-06-2012, 03:56 AM
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Re: MY husband said he wish i would die

This is not good at all leave this twisted man who is beyond help and infected with poison.

Listen TS AKA Tezzy

For every man that will hurt a woman talk down to her lie and cheat on her there is a man that will love her, be loyal and encourage her.

I suggest you ask yourself Do you deserve better?

I think you do

Best of luck
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post #21 of 22 (permalink) Old 03-06-2012, 06:44 AM
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Re: MY husband said he wish i would die

you have taken the 1st step in taking back controll of your life and he hates you for that. He has lost some controll and he is panicing. that why he is cruel and insults you to hurt you and break you down again. dont let him do because then he has won. dont give him controll of you and your life. take back your power.
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Re: MY husband said he wish i would die

Zombie thread which is now closed.

If you need advice please start a new thread with your issue.
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