Well, my husband and I have been married for 9 years, but we've been together for a total of 19 years...we are in our early thirties with two kids. We are high school sweethearts, however for the past few months, there seems to be something missing...something is just not right. We used to have sex at least 1-2 times a week and now it's been 1 every 3-4 weeks. Every night he's asleep by 8pm and I sit alone watching TV, reading or going online...I'm married, but feel so lonely. Beside the sex part, he doesn't kiss, hug or touch me in a loving way. He tells me all the time he loves me, but his actions say something totally different. Could it be he is just tired from his job? I get it, but I don't ask for much, just a kiss, hug...something. He says he is just tired, but I just feel like it's an excuse....any ideas or advice? We've been together for so long...maybe we've just grown apart? I feel lost