02-17-2012, 01:45 PM
Join Date: Dec 2011
| | Re: is cybersex the same as cheating?
Originally Posted by memyselfandi
Yes it is.
And why..because it doesn't stop at cybersex...too many outlets and too many of those who will make it real.
Because it may or may not be a gateway doesnt make it cheating. It's cheating because it's using someone else to fulfill your emotional/sexual needs that's not your wife. It's a question that has to be answered by every couple. Some couples for the same reason may view porn as cheating, whereas others would not consider any form of cyber sex cheating.
The true litmus test is, does the behavior have to be hidden. If both couples are OK with it, then there is no reason to hide it. If one person feels like they have to conceal the behavior, then it's cheating.
Back to my original statement, if you wouldn't do it in front of your spouse, it's cheating. It can be as innocent as conversation, or as serious as sexual relations.