Re: is cybersex the same as cheating?
If you have to hide, sneak, or lie to do it; then it's cheating!!
If you're guilty of any of those behaviors to have: Cyber sex, phone sex, online sex, porn sites, or all of the above, then it's obviously not consensual/ agreed upon in your relationship therefore I would consider it cheating.
I personally feel if my DH has to turn to these avenues to have a 'happy ending' then I'm not doing my job!
I also feel that when/if it gets to the point where H/W can't 'get off' with their spouse without involving the any of the other 'avenues' is when the extracurricular activities have become a problem/addiction that needs to be dealt with.
If your relationship is such that you feel free to partake of said activities, then great!!!! But let the rest of us who disagree with you have our opinions as well. Doesn't make any of us wrong; just different.
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