02-18-2012, 01:39 AM
Join Date: Aug 2011
| | friend tug of war
First some back story. I had known Stefanie since she worked at JC Nickle with me. My H worked there too. She was my friend and I talked with her frequently. We unfortunatly lost touch, and I had no way of finding her.
So my H and I are on our way home today and he says, "my friend Stefanie called". Without thinking I said, since when do you have a friend named Stefanie.?" Then it hit me, Ohhhh Stefanie!!
how is she??
Come to find out, he spent an hour on the phone with her talking.
I became upset. I said she called to talk to me, not you. You could have asked her to call back when I would be home. You got to hear everything thats been going on in her life, not me. Keep your cotton picking hands off MY friends!! Find your own dammit!
I have posted in the threads about my friendships up and downs, and the hurt I have endured.
I know this seems really silly, but I have up to this point only a couple of friends, and I guess im being territorial.
Its not because he was talking to a female. I really don't care who he talks to gender wise.
I guess I saw it as "poaching" one of the few friends I have.
What do you guys think? Thanks
PS Stefanie lives in Austin Texas now.