Well.... my lovely man really notices what I'm liking or not liking, he's in tune with me. He listens to my breathing and my noises and he looks me in the eyes and holds my gaze.. ( don't know why but that really turns me on). He makes me feel like were the only two people in the universe!
He also likes to play...sex with him is fun! Nothing worse than someone who takes themselves too seriously... especially when it comes to sex!
* He is uninhibited and unashamed of his sexual desires and encourages you to be the same.
* He has adequate equipment to get the job done lol
* He has a filthy mind ha
* He enjoys the same activities/fetishes as his partner
* He makes you feel like the sexiest thing he's ever seen when you're with him
* He can make you laugh in bed.
* His own instant gratification is secondary to her pleasure because he truly cannot be gratified without seeing her completely, deeply satisfied.
*He comes up with new ideas...you can only read the same chapter so many times before becoming bored...even if you're reading a masterpiece! Or he's at least open to her new ideas.
There are more, but those ones come to mind first.
I've got the slow hand /easy touch man who puts all my pleasure before his own...as he has gotten older... my excitement fuels his, he could stand to be more creative ...but that is where I pick it up...so it all works ...for us.
Always thought of him overwhelmingly -every time I heard that song...a precious one.
but my main thing, is listening to me. I'm very sensitive, sometimes overly sensitive, and certain things/motions hurt.
It really kills me, and kills the mood, for those things to not be taken into consideration and then be resented because I'm not enjoying what you're doing.
Other than that, proper equipment and non-squeemishness are both a must.
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What makes a man..... 
