I want to run away

diwali123 · 03-16-2012, 03:29 PM

The kid is 13, he doesn't even want a party, it's just family. My h is going to make the cake. He can figure it out. I'm
done, stick a fork in me.
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diwali123 · 03-16-2012, 07:00 PM

Ok yay the ILs aren't coming and my D is at my mom's house. I went to have dinner with my parents and now im
sitting in Starbucks having a mocha. Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh.
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DTO · 03-17-2012, 04:41 AM

If you are that stressed you need to re-prioritize and assess what is really important. Your marriage is important and your family's health must be addressed.

Maybe you can scale back on selling the house right now? If not, you can rent a place and at least take the stress of buying a home right away off the table.

diwali123 · 03-17-2012, 12:34 PM

We are renting right now. Our landlord is a nightmare. We put a contract on a house and it's just hard not knowing if everything will go through but we have to
assume that it will.
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endlessgrief · 03-17-2012, 11:54 PM

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Originally Posted by diwali123

Oh and ever since he told me that my usual horniness towards him has completely reversed and I don't know how I'm
going to have sex with him again.
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If my husband told me I stink, I would never let him touch me again. Not to punish him necessarily, but because I would be so self conscious and embarrassed that I would close down the clam for repairs.

Do you think you smell down there? Has he always felt that way. You could have an infection or just a very high Ph level. He also may not like going down on you and it is just an excuse.

diwali123 · 03-18-2012, 05:03 PM

He didn't say it in that way. Just that there was an odor. I am convinced that the odor is his semen. There is another thread on here about a woman who feels like smells for days after. He just never smells what he smells like. It's very very strong. I have never had that issue with anyone but there have only been two other people I didn't use a condom with.
So I guess it's a matter of him being in denial about how he smells. I don't know but I'm going to bring it up in counseling first thing. And yeah I'm really so not in the mood for him and I don't know when I will be.
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diwali123 · 03-18-2012, 05:10 PM

I should add that I've told him before I could smell his semen the next day and it freaked him out so bad he wouldn't come inside me for months. So maybe this is retribution? Like he can't admit that it is really pungent so he makes it about me? I wasn't even trying to be mean, I thought he might think it was sexy because it reminded me of what we did.
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endlessgrief · 03-20-2012, 12:22 AM

You are right, this might be retribution, but what a bad move on his part. If he ever wants to be intimate again, he better do something quick before you run and never look back.

There are just some things you never say to a woman. And yes, I used to smell bad AFTER me and H had sex and it was his semen. I douched and the smell was gone. It sounds like you are in a tornado, spinning and spinning not knowing which way to turn.

You really do need that break. It's not selfish to take care of one's sanity. In the end, everyone wins.

diwali123 · 03-20-2012, 10:56 AM

Well the other night he initiated and I wasn't sure I wanted to which seemed to turn him on more. We had great sex and he went down. It was great.
My daughter is going to be with my mom for two days, I'm going to look for ways to take care of me!
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