Re: Let's write the Married Woman Sex Life book
It is really hard when the woman wants more sex because this is outside the norm. People love to make jokes, but it is not funny when you are in this kind of marriage.
I think the worst part of this situation is that there are only so many things you can do to entice your spouse to have sex with you. There is the carrot: meet his/her needs, man/woman up, wear sexy clothes, go to the gym, and the stick: do the 180, turn down the temperature, develop your own interests, tell them that you are unhappy.
I think that ultimately you have to decide how important this is to you. Some spouses will wake up if they realize how dire the situation has become. Some will not care to meet their spouse's needs. Is the rest of the marriage is good enough to put up with living without a sexual connection?