02-23-2009, 04:28 PM
Join Date: Feb 2009
| | same day in & out, no communication
We have been together for 16 years, married for 4 1/2 years. We have 3 beautiful, healthy kids. I have always babied my husband, I get up 2 hrs earlier than I have to, to fix his coffee & lunch, keep house clean, kids taken care of.. I am just really tired of it all.. I am 38, and very confused on how to handle my situation. I love him but not in love with him anymore. He comes home, eats supper and then goes and watches tv. When I try to talk to him, I usually have to repeat myself because he is too much into the tv show. I have lost 30 pounds over the last 4 months and am getting a little attention when we go out. I am a friendly person, not a flirt, there is a difference and he is very to himself. He used to be more personable. He is 10 years older than me, I don't think that matters but when I try to talk about problems, he either isn't listening or swells us because he dosen't like any kind of confronation. Either it is good or bad, no in between. It has always been like this but it just seems lately, I don't want to live like that anymore. There are 50 things to do around the house, but the chores seem to keep piling up. Jobs that I don't know how to fix and can't afford someone else to fix. The kids are driving me crazy. I can only put on a happy face for so long. I am tired of just "letting it go" to keep the peace. I would rather me be upset about something than see him stomp around and be crappy to everyone. The kids see it. I cannot afford a divorce but I can't live like this forever. Please help me!!
Last edited by unappreciated; 02-24-2009 at 08:58 AM.
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