03-27-2012, 11:35 AM
Join Date: Nov 2011
| | Re: Tonight's the "D" telling night
Hisfac, sorry you are "confused" here. We are originially from another state where all our family and friends live and where my husband works as well. We've been in this new state since last July and signed a two year lease which the landlord, if necessary is willing to let us out of in one year.
Husband claims he can't find a job in new state after 10 months of being here. I claim he hasn't really tried all that hard, but that's my opinion.
Yes, I am intelligent enough to know this would get messy and even messier because of the circumstance of how we are living at the moment. Hope that clears things up.
I saw my regular therapist that I see (she regulates medicine for chronic migraines and chronic anxiety) today. She has been a therapist (she's also an MD) for 30 years that my husband is a full blown alcoholic. THIS is the source, though there are a lot of other issues that affect us.
I need to decide what is best for the children. Uprooting them AGAIN and going back to our old state where the cost of living is sky high or stay here where they are now adjusted. CLEAR?