See what you started with one little innocent comment, Kurosity?
Men do look awfully sexy when they are doing *man things* like mowing the lawn.
Now, a man covered in Heluvagood Leg Cheese Spread (Cheese Leg Spread? ) WHILE mowing the lawn would definitely get the neighbors talking!
I love to watch a sexy man bent over under the hood of a car turning wrenches. All sweaty and greasy. Just makes ya wanna have a greasy dirty romp in the yard.
I do see my friends' husbands though. Out of my closest friends, only one that I think is "ok". he's a decent man and father and husband. The other husbands I hear of play video games 24/7, never help with the kids, think they have the right to put their wives down, have guy's night out more than 2 times a month, talk about it being "THEIR" money, blah blah blah.
Not very sexy, imo. Look at your buddies. Are they good guys? Or do they just go to work and come home and sit in front of the video games, ignoring their wife and family? lol...
I love to watch a sexy man bent over under the hood of a car turning wrenches. All sweaty and greasy. Just makes ya wanna have a greasy dirty romp in the yard.
We just do it in the garage at that point. LOL It's happened more than once
What do you do to try to arouse your wife? Do you create a warm emotional atmosphere by flirting and teasing her? How much time do you spend on foreplay? You can't have the adolescent attitude that she should want to spend 3 minutes servicing you. Women need to feel that you spend time making them feel desired, like when you were courting her.
You need to understand female sexual response if you want to have a fulfilling relationship with your wife. That is why you got so many snarky jokes here.
Three minutes????? Ha there's your problem right there. Seriously?
I never had a man who could fix cars or anything. I didn't think it would be a turn on. But the first time he was undery car I thought "yeah that's awesome!" Posted via Mobile Device
Foreplay around my house consists of me doing the dishes, playing with the kids, talking to her, listening to her. Nothing sexual at all.
The sexual organ that needs the most stimulation to get her aroused is between her ears. Telling her how much I appreciate her, how attractive and desirable I find her, how attractive and desirable other men find her, how lucky I am to be with a woman that so many men would want.
When she is rested, when she feels valued, when she feels desirable, she makes those women in the porn movies look like amateurs...
I love sex. I love sex when I'm sick, on my period, when the house is a mess, when there are a million things on my to do list. I love sex when I'm dirty, when he is dirty, when we are stressed, when we are tired, even when I'm not in the mood. I don't need flowers, chocolate or ass kissing to want sex. It's fun, it feels fantastic and it's a workout. I'm not unique in this regard, my,friends who are in normal functional relationships generally have this attitude towards sex.
I married my husband for a lot of reasons, but a big one was to make sure I put that ass on lockdown.
Me and my husband communicate differently, and we struggle with feeling like each of us takes each other for granted in other areas, but if I ever, EVER got a whiff of just open your legs for three minutes and let me at it, I'd shut down faster than you could say nipple.
See as much as I love sex, I expect for it to be mutually pleasurable, I expect for it to provide for a deeper connection than a physical release. I don't want to be the most convenient warm hole, I want to be the whole person my spouse wants on every level. I feel the same way towards him, he isn't a random penis, he's a complicated wonderful person who deserves to feel great. I enjoy trying to put together his puzzle, I want someone who enjoys putting mine together too. Posted via Mobile Device
Silly Husband ,thanks for the advise.40 responce's, Only two females had a clue.The rest turn it into some kind of a joke.Kinda teaches me not to look for advise of most females about a well balance sex life.
When and if you have a husband who is a wonderful man,He is your best friend,He helps with everything in your life.He talks with you and listens well,He is a good father to your kids.He is your soul mate.
That man does not normally exist, and the only one has a pretty good sex life. I bet your wife will tell us you think way too much of yourself.
Me and my husband communicate differently, and we struggle with feeling like each of us takes each other for granted in other areas, but if I ever, EVER got a whiff of just open your legs for three minutes and let me at it, I'd shut down faster than you could say nipple.
Just wondering said : My question is.Where is the value in your mind to treat a man like this.When and if you have a husband who is a wonderful man,He is your best friend,He helps with everything in your life.He talks with you and listens well,He is a good father to your kids.He is your soul mate.But you will not give him 3 minutes of sex once or twice a week.Why do we have to beg,Barter,Get pissed off.Act like a ass,Just to receive a little love.Why is it worth it to you to make a man live like this.What do you get out of it?We all know when most men our getting laid .their as happly as can be and everything seems to flow in the marriage.
Reading this just now made me tear up.... my husband was All of these things our entire marrage and before.. and I was just off in the clouds somewhere..... but he did get it at least once a week... I could have done sooooo much more...easily. I hate myself for it sometimes. I seriously just "didn't know", didn't get it, was uneducated and oblivious...... he never faught with me, he just kept loving me. I WISH so bad he would have begged, bartered, got pissed off & told me what for...I needed that !!! I am very different from my husband, I would have caused hell over it ... so It is hard for me to understand someone this passive... Of course it is easy to say now what I would have done... but I believe I would have cared ...he was so damn good to me. I always loved pleasure. I am even a Physical toucher!
My answer to your question is... looking back (when I wasn't giving enough)... for all I knew my husband only needed it as much as I did, I remember us doing it....It was pure heaven, it was always so intense, so passionate- it seemed we were starving for it by then, we were so vanilla but we didn't care -probably cause we were "starving" , we never got bored. I always orgasmed, wished that feeling could go on for hours...
...But then....I used to think afterwards... "well, I'm good for another week".... In a way , I was like a man, those desires would "build" in me till I simply had to be taken....but that need was not every day (obviously)...like most men need it.
So in this respect, I had a "decent workable sex drive".... he could have aroused me sooo damn much more -but he didn't push. These are OUR MISTAKES, he was too passive, I was ...well stupid, clueless and a little repressed.
I am convinced I needed more sex all along even, just didn't know what I was missing somehow....trying to fill it with kids, busyness, church activities... I am much happier and joyful, we both laugh more, we are closer than we have ever been. Since I got my head out of my ass & my priorities straight.
SA, I sometimes feel like I am NOW the way you were THEN. How do I go about crossing that line............to be more 'Amorous'? I LOVE romance, sex, passion, love...........all of it. But I can't get it to fruition.
50Likes
Re: Tell me something 
) WHILE mowing the lawn would definitely get the neighbors talking! 
I love to watch a sexy man bent over under the hood of a car turning wrenches. All sweaty and greasy. Just makes ya wanna have a greasy dirty romp in the yard. 
