A few years ago, when my husband still had single friends, he would end up going to strip clubs with them for their bachelor parties (mostly ones in Las Vegas)... even though it did not happen often I was always so angry that he would want to go... probably at the time, mainly because I had NO real idea ( still kinda don't) of what goes on in there... Now I am not as worried, mainly maybe because I come to realize it is for the most part "entertainment" for men.
I know the basics, but wondering if anyone can shed further light into the REALITY of it... He told me the water down version I'm sure, so I would like to hear from anyone who has the R rated version? Just out of curiosity?
Well there are strippers who strip on a stage while dancing to music.
Some of them look good, some of them should put their clothes back on. Some of them are sexy, some of them look ridiculous.
The customers can then tip the girls on stage, or they can just sit and watch. Or look at their phone.
And the girls go around asking the guys if they want some company, which is their opening to sit down, schmooze the guy and try to get the guy to pay for a table dance. Which is what the strippers want. They will be all smiles and pleasantries til he has no more money.
And some strip clubs have VIP rooms where they try to gouge the guy for more money. And sometimes prostitution happens in them. Which seems really gross to me.
It's an all around seedy, shady business.
Despite any myth that strippers are poor innocent women who are victims of a male sex industry, strippers are hustlers some are even hookers.
Some are smart, opportunistic women making as much money as they can, and it's all business for them.
Some are low class or drug addicts.
Some are stripping to support their kid, because they got knocked up by some loser who can't support them. He probably drove her to work, with the baby in the car seat.
Some are poor, damaged girls who were probably molested alot when they were young and they don't know any better.
The guys who go in there. Some just go on random occasions for fun, like women go to male strip clubs.
Some go and hate it.
Some go looking for sex.
Some go because they are addicted to it.