I agree that there is nothing more annoying than somebody with no confidence. Or I do know some guys who are just....no wonder they are single. But to me that is minority.
Most people I know seem to have a basic sense of self confidence.
So I don't get why women always mention confidence so much.
Are there really that many men out there with no or low confidence?
Because I don't see it that way.
Please elaborate ladies.
I wonder if it's self-confidence or is the person just outgoing that makes them sexy?
I've met many men in the past that are very outgoing, talk easily in a crowd etc., and that's sexy, but they have to have the self-confidence as well. I'm not talking about what Lon was saying, being somewhat of a loner etc. The turn off is the guy who walks around thinking he's all that, brags about himself, it can look like self-confidence, but actually he's lacking quite a bit. I would prefer the meek and mild guy any day to the loud idiot who grabs his balls all day. lol
What was that game people used to play in the internet, where they would rate people of the opposite sex...hot or not, something like that. When I was working at a job years ago, a bunch of women were addicted to this, I walked in to one of their offices, and was shocked they were doing this....I was sooo married. lol
I wonder if it's self-confidence or is the person just outgoing that makes them sexy?
I've met many men in the past that are very outgoing, talk easily in a crowd etc., and that's sexy, but they have to have the self-confidence as well. I'm not talking about what Lon was saying, being somewhat of a loner etc. The turn off is the guy who walks around thinking he's all that, brags about himself, it can look like self-confidence, but actually he's lacking quite a bit. I would prefer the meek and mild guy any day to the loud idiot who grabs his balls all day. lol
Yea, Hubs is not a ball grabber. That allows me to grab them all day
Some guys just have this geeky deer in headlights psycho kind of thing going on. It's like they don't know who they are, that's what I mean about not being confident. Oh yeah similar values is huge! Can't stand racists, homophobes or guys who have confederate flags and have a trailer park attitude. Posted via Mobile Device
Some guys just have this geeky deer in headlights psycho kind of thing going on. It's like they don't know who they are, that's what I mean about not being confident. Oh yeah similar values is huge! Can't stand racists, homophobes or guys who have confederate flags and have a trailer park attitude. Posted via Mobile Device
Or guys who'd rather watch race car racing instead of sex?? what is up with that???
That's what happens when you go from a healthy sex life (un healthy marriage lol) to nothing at all.....I seriously don't know how people go without it..but that's another thread.
That's what happens when you go from a healthy sex life (un healthy marriage lol) to nothing at all.....I seriously don't know how people go without it..but that's another thread.
I haven't gotten laid since the end of January. I know what you're going through.
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