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Old 04-04-2012, 07:18 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Ok, I've had sex on my mind for too long...so I thought I would ask this question to the ladies.

I recently met someone who is damn sexy, smart, confident, a dedicated father, great body, a great cook (bonus points for this), owns his own business, and has a hot tub...mmmm..

What makes a guy sexy to you gals???
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Old 04-04-2012, 07:26 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Intelligence and humor....two musts! My H has that and then some.
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Old 04-04-2012, 07:34 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Calmness.
Confident.
The laughter is in his eyes when he smiles.
Gotta be able to share a joke/ my kind of humor.
Whit is essential.
Responsible.

I guess... calm cool & collected.

Oh... and it helps SOOoooo much , if he can nicely fill out the back side of a great looking pair of jeans!
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Confidence. Keeps his word. Not a 'yes' man. Oh and .....a dimple in the chin never hurt anyone.
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Calmness.
Confident.
The laughter is in his eyes when he smiles.
Gotta be able to share a joke/ my kind of humor.
Whit is essential.
Responsible.

I guess... calm cool & collected.

Oh... and it helps SOOoooo much , if he can nicely fill out the back side of a great looking pair of jeans!
I seem to go crazy for the loose jeans, you know the ones with the low pockets, I know not that sexy, but, yep, gets me very interested.
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Oh and I forgot to add, a good kisser.
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Old 04-04-2012, 07:46 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Intelligence and humor....two musts! My H has that and then some.
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my eyes are going and i need bifocals .....

when I first read your post I thought you said two nuts...LOl

better get to the eye dr.
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my eyes are going and i need bifocals .....

when I first read your post I thought you said two nuts...LOl

better get to the eye dr.
LOL!!! Stay away from the eye doctor. Reading it as "two nuts" is so much funnier!!!!

Think of the humor you'd miss out on if you had those new glasses.
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I seem to go crazy for the loose jeans, you know the ones with the low pockets, I know not that sexy, but, yep, gets me very interested.
Naw... gotta be the good old butt hugging Levi's or Wranglers.

God, my hubby's ass looks so fine when I walk behind him in the store!.
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there's no single thing, it really depends

for example, I can appreciate the fact that David Beckham looks good and has a nice body, but as soon as he opens that mouth and that silly squeaky voice comes out my lady boner dies a death

there has to be something going on upstairs for me - if I connect with someone they could look like quasimodo for all I care

oh, but they have to smell nice

and give good head
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Old 04-05-2012, 06:36 AM   #11 (permalink)
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eyes. eyes kill me. And what I see in them.

confidence but not arrogance, self control, and humor, I have the dirtiest sense of humor, I laugh at things I shouldn't, I am queen of "thats what she said" and "your mom" i need childish and dry humor. And someone who does not take themselves seriously.

although my dream man has black hair, green eyes, wears guyliner, a sexy muscular back, rides a horse ,wears a kilt, and has the most amazing accent..oh, and likes playing video games, and puppies
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...for example, I can appreciate the fact that David Beckham looks good and has a nice body, but as soon as he opens that mouth and that silly squeaky voice comes out my lady boner dies a death...
Hahaha. So true!

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there's no single thing, it really depends...

there has to be something going on upstairs for me - if I connect with someone they could look like quasimodo for all I care...
I second your thoughts. Intelligence and humor is a must for me, but what really makes a man sexy is his passion. The energy and excitement for whatever his passions may be is a huge turn-on. Swoon

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I think when a man says "I want you", that's very sexy, you know when they desire you, and tell you all kinds of things in your ear....yep, good times.


I agree with the voice thing, they can be the greatest looking dude, they open their mouths, and you just look and say "seriously, you ruined it for me".
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There's just something about some men that exude sexiness to me.

Hubs is one of them. The way he looks, stands, walks, smells, talks...everything he does is sexy.

I love getting into conversations with him about politics and social issues. And he's SUPER smart with money. He knows what he knows and he's very confident. Confidence is sexy.

Watching him work on the car, watching him read stories to our daughter, watching him work on the house, when he gets dressed up for our dates...so much.

He's a man of his word which earned my respect right away.

He has this smirk/smile that drives me CRAZY! I saw it on date one and I swear it made my panties wet It still does.

Oooh and when he wears a good pair of jeans....holy shet.
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I agree with the voice thing, they can be the greatest looking dude, they open their mouths, and you just look and say "seriously, you ruined it for me".
I dated a guy like that! Beautiful as a model, dumb as a rock.

lol I did not date him long but it was fun for a couple of weeks
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