discouraged1

Ladies, I got to ask this question... just thought of it. Sorry for it being out there but it is what it is. So wife says when her Cha cha is itchy (not sure what from) that it can't be touched because it makes it worse. If I have clean hands I just don't get why it would make it worse.. sounds like just another excuse.
Would it bother you?
Don't get me wrong I am not trying to get her to do anything she doesn't want to do but she has an excuse for everything.
I am doing a 180 and thinking of all of the stuff I have heard.

Hope1964

Yeah, if she's itchy there, there's a problem. Unless she shaves - that can be itchy when it grows back sometimes. Otherwise, she needs to see a doctor. Or wash her cha cha.

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Conrad

Tell her itches need to be scratched.

INTJme

Of course you should talk to your wife and she should probably see a doctor. But as a woman I can tell you if she's itchy because of yeast ( or maybe even bacterial vaginosis) being touched down there can be very irritating and can hurt really bad.
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SunnyT

...but if it's a yeast infection then she should just say that. And I'd think that would be a once-in-awhile "condition".... not a usual excuse.

that_girl

Yeast infection.

Get some monistat.

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INTJme

That's more than likely true but Ive also heard of yeast infections that are very resistant to the common treatments. Also heard of some women having a problem with chronic infections from birth control and/or ph changes One of my friends many years ago had one for several months before she finally got rid of it.

But yeah my best advice to the OP is to ask her to see a doctor. I she won't, you have your answer as to whether she's making excuses or not.
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Mavash.

Red flag.

My bets on it's another excuse.

onehotmama

Itchy?? Definitely a yeast infection
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chillymorn

yep she advoiding sex with you by comming up with an excuse......how often it is itchy.

she used that excuse hoping you would be ignorant to such matters and not question her about it.

tell her bummer its itchy so how about a blow job. then tell her after she get her cha,cha looked at you will return the favor!

okeydokie

so she doesnt go see her gyno for the itchy cha cha? hmmmmmmm

CandieGirl

Not to be negative, but could be something worse than a simple yeast infection; maybe she has something and is avoiding passing it on to you.

trey69

By her some yeast medicine. It can be gotten over the counter. My wife had a yeast infection not long ago due to some antibiotics she was on. If she doesn't use it or she says it didn't work, you need to suggest she got to the doctor. Sometimes prescription strength might work better. Hopefully she will go to the doc if it doesn't work.

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Eternal Embrace

I side with the others on the yeast infection... and yes they can last a loooong time and no, monistat does not always work.

She can go to the doc and they can perscribe her a pill (I forget the name for it) that can knock it out - sometimes if the infection is bad enough thou more than one pill may be required.

And if it is in fact a yeast infection - you do NOT wanna go near that! My husband learned the hard way (no pun intended) that men can also get yeast infections - and from what I saw him experience it seemed worse for a man than a woman! Oddly enough thou I called my gyno and got her to phone me in a script for above mentioned pill and made hubby take the pill - that pill worked just as good for him as it did me!!!

Hope1964

The pill is called diflucan (at least it is here) and it works wonders.

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