03-10-2009, 01:20 AM
Join Date: Jul 2008
| | Need a female opinion
My wife and I have been married for 6 years, together for 12. We have had a very happy relationship, until recently as you may have found from my previous post. Basically, I need a female opinion on what my wife is going through, and if there is any chance of saving our marriage....
My wife has told me she is very confused with herself. She said that she is not sure what she wants out of life, and that she is very unhappy with her current situation. She always thought she wanted to be a stay at home mother, with our 5 year old and 10 month baby, however she has recently decided this is not what she wants. She feels guilty that she isn't happy.
On top of this, she has told me that she is not happy with our relationship. She said that she only married me because she felt so bad about herself at the time and I was the only one interested in her. She also feels like we are just good friends who got married, and she has no feelings for me other than friends.
We have not yet broken up, and she does want to try and work on our marriage, but I'm not sure if this is because she doesn't want to be alone, or doesn't know what to do, or if we are just together because of the kids. Is there any chance for us if she's doesn't want to be with me? What can I do to save our marriage?
Please help !!!!