Re: My man hanging with a girl.....?
Let me be clear. I would never partake in the hijacking of a thread, to the extent I did here, if I thought it was truly a hijacking. That YOUtube video was great. All the guys have one answer, the girls another. Just like in our thread. So I think it's safe to say that we guys win by default.
How many guys in that video, right IN FRONT of their gal pals, said "Hell yeah" to the question (and I'm paraphrasing) "would you do her?".
Once THE GIRL shows an interest, it's a done deal. PARTICULARLY considering the amount of effort your guy is putting into her. That's WAY too much time for a girl he's not into.
I'm going to be punished with guy-code karma points for this, I fear. But I've got to say it: there's not a single guy reading this that doesn't know your man wants her. But it's not HIS intent we're worried about, is it?
He will honestly say "we're just friends". If you don't pull the confrontation off right, you lose forever as a jealous control freak who's hubby can't have any friends. Talk about boundaries. Hell, show him that Youtube video. Tell him it was a unanimous decision and he's on the team that has proven he's headed for all bad with her. It's a near guarantee.