My wife does sometimes during sex. She tells me if she does. It's no one specific and it's usually like a threesome thing with myself involved. Sometimes she fantasizes about having sex with several men one after the other. Again, it's just a fantasy and nothing to get riled up about.
Lately though we're just trying to think about eachother.
My HFG has a similar fantasy.....
I would hate to think she ever thinks about multiple consecutive men WHILE I am inside her though.
Fantasy is one thing, replacement therapy is another
I do think about it when he doesn't seem interested in me sexually for a while. I'm kind of like the teenage male at this point. It's no one in particular, just the thought that I could call a former fling but then I feel gross and like what is wrong with me and I would never do it. Posted via Mobile Device
Do you sometimes think that you want to sleep with another man?
Never felt like doing such a thing.. Not because it is wrong or something, but since I feel a mandatory step to having sex for me is emotional connection and moreover intense love. I like to think that "sex" is a physical manifestation of "love" between husband and wife.. So, H is the only guy on this planet who qualifies for that
Not to say that I do find few men attractive, in movies and otherwise as well, and I do get upset with my husband once in a while at which point i don't want to sleep with him.... However, even in those circumstances don't feel like sleeping with another man.
Besides, what can be done... looks like Hugh Jackman is already taken by CoffeeAmore oh well...
Never felt like doing such a thing.. Not because it is wrong or something, but since I feel a mandatory step to having sex for me is emotional connection and moreover intense love. I like to think that "sex" is a physical manifestation of "love" between husband and wife.. So, H is the only guy on this planet who qualifies for that
Not to say that I do find few men attractive, in movies and otherwise as well, and I do get upset with my husband once in a while at which point i don't want to sleep with him.... However, even in those circumstances don't feel like sleeping with another man.
Besides, what can be done... looks like Hugh Jackman is already taken by CoffeeAmore oh well...
No idea why...perhaps I need more of this testosterone SA has?
There is no doubt in my mind..... that hormones being heighened can DO strange things to our minds .....giving us more VIVID & erotic fantasies -it has been studied even and at least for me...how very true it was! Doesn't make anyone a cheater, but HIGH TEST....wow, it's an eye opener! We can either judge ourselves for it, questioning our love ....or embrace it, laugh at it a little and keep chasing down our spouse! That is pretty much what I did.
With mine calming, but still in good measure ... my fantasies has lessoned along with it. It was all something I was going through. Just trying to be real about it.
My husband tells me he loves his "dirty old woman".
No, actually the thought disgusts me. I have no idea why. I only fantasize about my husband.
Subconsciously I do. Ugh, I'll have a dream that I kissed or so with someone I don't know. I do dream about my husband a lot too, but having other strange men in my dreams makes me feel guilty when I wake up.lol
I'm not sure how it is for "all" or "most" women, but I feel my W's thoughts are very much in line with my own....
As a man, I can apperciate and get very turned on by the visual of an attractive woman. Specifically a nice "b" cup perky boob. Puts me over the top and there is no better "visual" for me. But that's a visual thing and not a fantasy.
My fantasies will almost always involve my W. Threesomes, or things we don't do together, and never would (though we've come close to the WMW threesome thing). But she's there. My fantasies do not feel as good if she's "not there" in my mind when I'm having them.
She has fantasies I know of. Anal. We will likely never do that. I'm a bit on the large side, and she worries about other aspects of it as well. But she has that fantasy.
Two guys on her. She has that one as well. And (at least reportedly, lol) when she does, I'm involved. She has no desire to actually live that one either.
Woman on woman. She has that one as well. Though she admits oftentimes that fantasy involves me "watching". Not always, but most of the time.
They're fantasy. I have zero heartburn over her fantasies, just as I hope she has none of mine. It's human nature. The "unthinkable" or "too naughty" can be an extreme turn on. Doesn't mean it could realistically, or even remotely happen. I hope I'm mostly somehow involved in most of her fantasies, but ya know what? If I'm not in all of them, so be it, she may occassionally not wind up in all of mine either. Does not mean a thing or have a thing to do with "us". I feel we both understand that and are both as individuals and as a couple all the better for that understanding.
I believe where our line is at, is while we both may have fantasies about imaginary people or people we have just seen and do not actually know, I'm fairly certain neither of us crosses over the line of fantasy about people of the opposite sex we do know. That seems to be touching on dangerous territory, and I personally don't like to go there. Fantasy is about the "act" or some "hot guy" or "hot gal" one of us has seen. It is never about "you know...your friend so and so...." or "there's this guy / girl in the office". Best to avoid that altogether.
Do you sometimes think that you want to sleep with another man?
No particular man, just another person. But you don't do it because it's wrong, immoral, destroy family, risk of diseases and other bad stuff.
I know most if not all men want to sleep with other woman, just because we are genetically wired to do so, but most of us have self control.
But really, do you sometime think of sleeping with another man?
I think that any married person who tells you they have never felt an attraction to someone other than their spouse is likely fibbing. That's only human
Throughout my 20 year marriage, I occasionally met someone whom I found attractive.
Cheating, however, was not an option. I took my vows seriously.
I would also avoid people who flirted with me too strongly.
I do. I don't tell him about it though b/c that would be insensitive. I'm sure he does too and I don't fault him for that.
Sometimes I will see an attractive guy and think, "I wonder what he is like in bed" but that's about as far as it goes.
By 'less timid' all I mean is a guy who is willing to initiate some new things, a man who I can really feel desires me, a man whose repertoire goes beyond a few kisses and caresses followed by missionary position every time, forever.
Ah, gotcha... and confirmed, not the sort of timid I associate with the word. I was doing those things even before I started trying to become less introverted and avoidant.
Not at first.. Then marriage issues started and were never resolved. We had sex maybe once every 2 months, not enough for me. So yes at the end I did think about sleeping with other men. I never did sleep with anyone else though
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