Scione in my 11 years with my soon to be ex wife I can honestly say I never wanted to be with another woman. Even now that she is divorcing me the thought of being with another woman is not appealing as of yet Posted via Mobile Device
yes, often and all day, but my marriage is in trouble. When it was good, however, I would only think of other men during my, uh, private time, and not all day long.
Scione in my 11 years with my soon to be ex wife I can honestly say I never wanted to be with another woman. Even now that she is divorcing me the thought of being with another woman is not appealing as of yet Posted via Mobile Device
Proudwidday, come on, be real. If you are saying, you never once have that thought. I will bow down to you.
Well I have a free pass from my husband to sleep with Hugh Jackman if his car broke down outside our home and he just had to spend the night at my place. And hubby has a free pass if Kate Beckinsale ever expressed interest in him.
On a more serious note...the thought has crossed my mind. It's not a thought that crosses my mind every day or even every month. I have a lot of thoughts on various topics that I don't act on. For example, I occasionally think I want to tell my supervisor's supervisor to do something that starts with the letter "F" but I don't. I know I have a good job and I'd be an idiot to mess it up. Same thing with my marriage. I have a great husband and I'd be a world class idiot to mess that up. So yeah, I may have a thought about some man but it comes in the head and then it goes out. My attention span isn't that long anyway.
With my ex.... ya, I thought about it. He wasn't "that into" me... I guess I fantasized about a man who IS.
Which is what I have now.... so in the past 7 years, I cannot even imagine wanting any other man. THIS one is awesome....in bed and out. No need to wonder about anyone else.
Now that I've seen this thread... just ran the thought through my head and found it rather unappealing. So tossed it in the rejection bin.... which in my mind is like this..... 300 - This is madness. This is Sparta. - YouTube (sorry.. love this movie lol)
My wife does sometimes during sex. She tells me if she does. It's no one specific and it's usually like a threesome thing with myself involved. Sometimes she fantasizes about having sex with several men one after the other. Again, it's just a fantasy and nothing to get riled up about.
Lately though we're just trying to think about eachother.
Well I have a free pass from my husband to sleep with Hugh Jackman if his car broke down outside our home and he just had to spend the night at my place. And hubby has a free pass if Kate Beckinsale ever expressed interest in him.
On a more serious note...the thought has crossed my mind. It's not a thought that crosses my mind every day or even every month. I have a lot of thoughts on various topics that I don't act on. For example, I occasionally think I want to tell my supervisor's supervisor to do something that starts with the letter "F" but I don't. I know I have a good job and I'd be an idiot to mess it up. Same thing with my marriage. I have a great husband and I'd be a world class idiot to mess that up. So yeah, I may have a thought about some man but it comes in the head and then it goes out. My attention span isn't that long anyway.
I had to chuckle Coffee. My wife has a pass for Pierce Brosnan if they meet in a stairwell or on stairs (via Thomas Crown Affair). I would venture to say my wife has fantasies via her Nora Roberts novels. I do not think I would get laid every Saturday morning if it was not for Ms. Roberts. I may owe her some kind of Royalty come to think of it.
The women's answers here do not surprise me. I think women have to be swept up by a guy to really get those kind of feelings. Seeing a guy walk down the street may illicit a "he's hot" thought but rarely a "I want to rope that and ride it" thought. Ladies?
The thought of being with someone other than my husband icks me out. I of course notice attractive men while I am out and about but I never think about being with them.
Well I have a free pass from my husband to sleep with Hugh Jackman if his car broke down outside our home and he just had to spend the night at my place. And hubby has a free pass if Kate Beckinsale ever expressed interest in him.
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RClawson said : The women's answers here do not surprise me. I think women have to be swept up by a guy to really get those kind of feelings. Seeing a guy walk down the street may illicit a "he's hot" thought but rarely a "I want to rope that and ride it" thought. Ladies?
This explains how I feel also... a little joking .....if Ryan Gosling wanted to sleep with an old lady like me ...or some PlayBoy Bunny showed up at our door for my husband saying.... "come on baby...what R you waiting for ??"
When I came into my sexual Peak, my sex drive was so damn high, I felt like I stepped into the body of a raging teen male .....my husband became my addiction......suddenly I started to crave PORN...& I was undressing every man I seen in public if he was half good looking.
Yes, this sounds completely outragous but I bet all of you men understand....back when you were teens! I know I was experiencing some kind of Test surge. I even said to my husband during that time..... I could take on 3 men .... He was not offended or upset... I was just expressing the magnitude of what I was "feeling"... my mind was hi-jacked. Suddenly I was looking at SEX on a whole nother plane...and boy was it ever exciting -electric ....if a facial expression could do justice, it is here >>>
My fantasies also went haywire. This includes thoughts of being with other men. I can't say I ever felt that way before, so I am going to blame it on my hormones busting out of control.
We have a beautiful fullfilling marraige... I would never hurt my husband like that. The overwhelming majority of my fantasies are me & him going back in time...reliving yesterday in all types of scenerios we were too busy not trying back then.
So yes, I have crossed the fence in my head.. Does it mean I love my husband any less....not at all. Am I the unfaithful type.... never.
I've asked my husband this question.. he swears he has never wanted another woman- ever....even when things were DRY for him...(once a week sex)....somehow I believe him -it is in the way he has always treated me..... he doesn't find it betrayal if our minds go there in moments of fantasy ......he knows how much I adore him... he feels it every day. So it's all gooooood.
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But you don't do it because it's wrong, immoral, destroy family, risk of diseases and other bad stuff.
My reasons would be .... We've only been with each other in this life... honestly, there is a mystery for me what that might be like.... but the other side of this coin is much much more powerful...
There is a sacredness that goes very very deep for both of us ...being untouched by another ....I know if I EVER crossed that line ......WE would never be the same...something would be irrevocably lost forever, because of how HIGH we hold the act of "intimacy" & sex... it has never been "just sex" to us....but an emotional, even a "spiritual" bonding.
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Women, do you think about it? 
