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post #16 of 19 (permalink) Old 05-15-2012, 09:48 PM
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Re: Hair and Sex Drive?


I think your drop in drive is a reaction to him wanting nothing to do with you physically. You're shutting down because you're body is realizing just how much you've hurt him, and it's giving up.

The initial rush was biology helping you trick him into staying with him. Nature gave you the urge to make him believe he was your mate by giving him lots of sex. Now nature is moving on from that strategy since it didn't work.
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post #17 of 19 (permalink) Old 05-16-2012, 08:34 AM
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I apologize for being a bit rough on you. My husband made all sorts of excuses for why he cheated and I am hyper vigilant. So sorry.

Still, do some research about cutting off one's hair in response to an emotional issue. It is often associated with various psychological issues.

Do you remember when Brittany Spears shaved her head? Do your remember her emotional state.

Addressing these issues can help your marriage. It is IMO, definitely something that needs to be addressed with a Doc.
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[QUOTE=Sara8;747766]I had short hair in my teens and early 20s it did not increase or decrease my sex drive or decrease date requests.

I have had waist length hair since my mid 20s and it did not decrease or increase my sex drive nor did it affect the number of dating requests.

Also, there are certain types of personality disorders or psychological issues in which people often choose to cut their hair when frustrated or depressed. Can you rule that out any psychological issues? Have you seen a doctor or a psychiatrist?

'Cause even think about killing a cute puppy to please someone, sounds a tad crazy to me.

It sounds like something an extreme pathological narcissist would do or perhaps a sociopath.[/

I think she was just making a nervous joke. They usually come off bad. I wouldnt hold it against her.
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Samson blamed everything on his hair too, but he did cool things like wrestle a lion

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