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Old 05-16-2012, 07:01 PM   #1 (permalink)
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I would really appreciate a female's advice on text messages I can send to my wife during the day while she is at work that would be sexy or very flirtatious. We've really been having problems lately and it seems as though we have finally resolved them and I want to try and keep the spice and romance in our marriage. I am not looking to send anything dirty, just something that will make her happy and perhaps keep the spark in our relationship.
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Old 05-16-2012, 07:24 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Just little nice messages that you are thinking of her.

Thinking of you.
U'r still the apple of my eye.
Ouch! Can you wear softer shoes?? Your ran thru my mind again.
Can't w8t 2C ur smile 2nite.

Etc... just simple stuff like that. But, that might be a bit tamer than you wanted.
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Those sound "loving" but not really flirtatious. But what do I know, I'm a guy. Maybe a woman would see that and feel flirted with.
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Old 05-16-2012, 07:45 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Can't wait to see my beautiful sexy wife tonight....want to play hookie?
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Thanks Chelle D. I like those and I would also like something a little less tame. I'm looking for both, but again nothing dirty. Thanks alot. I will try one of those tomorrow.
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Thanks also Verushkita. I like that as well. I also would like to know from the ladies which types of texts you would prefer. Something sexually related or the kinds of texts that Chelle D and Verushkita have suggested.
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Well personally I'd rather see what Chelle D and verushkita wrote on my phone than " can't wait to fu@k you baby".... but maybe that's just me.

OR maybe you want something inbetween??
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Old 05-16-2012, 09:23 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Waiwera, I would never send her something like that. I think I also like what the other ladies said and I would also like something in between that and what you said. I also believe if I sent her a message like you said it would be a huge turnoff for her or almost any other woman. Thanks for your advice.
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Old 05-16-2012, 09:36 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Freddieb - you sound like a great husband.

Yes it would be a turnoff to me but as we know not all blokes realise this... and who knows maybe there are lots of women that would like to hear it

For me all I would want to hear that my man is missing me and looking forward to being with me again.

Something naughty but nice
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Old 05-16-2012, 09:42 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Well, I like sexy/flirtatious/loving texts from my husband lol. I like when he changes it up a bit.

You could try "Hey honey, you looked really sexy in that (whatever outfit) this morning. Can't get you out of my mind"

Or just tell her you are thinking of her, you miss her, can't wait to just sit and cuddle with her...even say you can't wait to do whatever her favorite activity, or BOTH of your favorite activity, that night. Things like that are great, for me, to get from my husband.

JUST to clarify, for any lurkers out there who may think of sending such messages to my inbox... I said FROM MY HUSBAND. Sadly, that needs to be clarified from time to time.
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I'll be honest, I'm a big ole flirty bum.

What's your wife's style? How does she interact with you?

I like the variety. I personally like the messages that let me know he's simply thinking of me. It might be how much in love with me he is. It could relate to something we have done together, how much he enjoyed walking the dogs with me that morning (or whatever it was). When we have parted in the city for work, he has texted me to say how captivating my walk is and he couldn't take his eyes off me after I said goodbye. I love that kind of thing.

He might be telling me how the image of what I was wearing that morning keeps playing in his mind. He might tell me I'm intoxicating and he has trouble focusing. It might relate to what happened the night before. You get the idea. Often he only needs to write a few words and the message is loud and clear. (unlike how I tend to waffle on in this forum lol). Flirtation between us will usually spark from one of these types of messages. I think we gauge where each other is at during the day too. I know if he's got a crazy busy day with meetings, he won't be in that mindset to have a full dirty talk/flirtatious dialogue via text. But there will be enough to cause us both to smile and be mildly cheeky.

But ....being aware of timing and what is happening in each others day is also important. Sick at home with the flu? I love the messages of "Rest up today. I love you" and "I'll be home soon to take care of you. What would my beautiful girl like for dinner?"
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We were flirting once via text. I suggested she might want to send me a pic, which she interpreted as a naked pic. So she took a pic of her naked.....foot. Haha
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We were flirting once via text. I suggested she might want to send me a pic, which she interpreted as a naked pic. So she took a pic of her naked.....foot. Haha
OMG! I asked my husband to take a pic of himself for me... He knew what I meant. I got a pic.... he was sticking his tongue out at me
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"Hey Sexy"
"I am thinking of you and wishing that you were here."
"You are a hot, sexy ***** and I need you."


Just a few that I have sent.
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My husband emails me during the day. He sends things like "I got hard remembering how sexy you look when you're cumming. Can't wait to see that face again ce soir, ma belle." He adds a little French to make it sound more romantic. Oui oui, mon mari!

I like to up the ante by calling and murmuring deliciously dirty things while my husband sits at his desk. Every wife should strive to me her husband's tramp. Keeps things hot and interesting.
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