I am sitting on the loveseat in our apartment. My husband is sanding and staining a piece of furniture for me. He's not wearing a shirt and he is sweating. Be still, my little heart! My husband looks so sexy and alpha. Too bad I can't jump him right now. I'll just enjoy the view. *sigh*
I have these kinds of moments at least four times a week, where I look at my husband and I immediately want to take him to bed. Do you often have moments like these? How do you keep the attraction if you've been married for a long time?
I am sitting on the loveseat in our apartment. My husband is sanding and staining a piece of furniture for me. He's not wearing a shirt and he is sweating. Be still, my little heart! My husband looks so sexy and alpha. Too bad I can't jump him right now. I'll just enjoy the view. *sigh*
I have these kinds of moments at least four times a week, where I look at my husband and I immediately want to take him to bed. Do you often have moments like these? How do you keep the attraction if you've been married for a long time?
My wife does this stuff.
She hates to sweat but I swear every time I walk into the house after working outside sweating bullets, covered in dirt, mud, grass clippings, drywall ..whatever she throws her self at me with a "I`ve been watching you" with that look in her eyes.
Granted I`m usually half naked at the time but I look like the swamp thing in my mind when she does this stuff.
He was tearing out cupboards from the kitchen yesterday. I was unwell in bed, he popped his head into the room to see how I was. He was wearing a skullcap, jeans, tshirt, protective eyeglasses and carrying a hammer. haha that sounds like it could be the start of a horror movie... but no. I managed to squeek out "You look so hot." Then he got even hotter with this cheeky grin he flashed me. Hot damn.
Every morning when I see him getting ready I think how sexy he is. When we're traveling together on the train and he offers up his seat to another.
Been together 17 years. While I view him as an attractive man, it's his persona I'm attracted to most of all. I guess he remains attractive to me through his behavior, his humor, his growth, his taking care of responsibilities, his care and consideration of me. I don't think these things in that moment when I find him attractive - but if I were to consider what it is - I guess it's a sum of these things.
I have these kinds of moments at least four times a week, where I look at my husband and I immediately want to take him to bed. Do you often have moments like these? How do you keep the attraction if you've been married for a long time?
I must say I DO think like this ...and in the last 3 yrs, probably too much......in that 1st 8 months, I wanted to tear his clothes off 3 times a day.... I've calmed down considerably, the cougar wanted to devour.
But this still happens... and I love telling him I feel this way....and seductively showing him .....I know he eats that up, never tires of it .... but he is so humble, many times he will say ...."love is blind"...
It happens often when we are out & about, when I see him engaging with others....especialy women for some reason.... laughing, or I am somewhere off in the distance noticing him...I often think to myself.... if he was not mine, I'd be seriously checking him out. And that is kinda exciting- to know you are still married to a man you love checking out -that is HOT!
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that_girl said: When he works on the cars.
When he dances with our daughter.
When he comes home in a suit and tie...all askewed.
When he gets out of the shower and puts on his boxers.
When he walks by. lol.
I thought he was the sexiest creature I'd ever seen before I even knew his name. Everything about him screams SEX to me.
I love this, yes....all of this. How do you not adore & cherish a true Handyman, he has such power & abilities... and a doting loving father who laughs with his children, watches movies with them in his arms ...he likes to take our daughter and "sweep the floor" with her hair.
He near never puts on a suit & tie but I know I would be swooning...and when we get home..alone... I'd take that tie off and put it around his neck & pull him into me.
When he's reading a story to the kids and tucking them in.
When he wears his baseball cap (yeah i know some of ya don't like that type of hat but he makes it look good!)
When he gets home from work in his security uniform...
Whenever he's able to fix any electronic appliance that I couldn't.. then turns and gives me that ****y grin of his.