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Old 05-26-2012, 03:15 AM   #1 (permalink)
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My Wifey is playful during the day with dirty txt and talks a lil nasty with close frenz when we're out but when we go to bed , , , NOTHING ! ! ! I'm like WTF she talks the talk but don't walk the walk Do any of you lady's do this and WHY It's so frustrating especially when I hear her talking with her frenz like she's a porn star and thinking in my head ur full off caca
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I sometimes tease my own spouse but whenever I'm preggy.. nothing happens in bed because 1. I'm not in the mood. 2. whenever he even gets me the slightest bit excited via touch or just kissing.. the unborn always moves around which tends to make me nauseous. (If that's how you even spell it...) and 3... I'm afraid of going into labor early... lol.. but those are just my reasons... and it's normally when I'm preggy that he doesn't get anything.
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Question are you just hopping into bed thinking your going to get some? When she texts you dirty texts what do you say in return?
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Question are you just hopping into bed thinking your going to get some? When she texts you dirty texts what do you say in return?
When I go up to bed she is usually playing games on her phone and I got to try to get her attention. She will usually tell me stop she is trying to relax or I only play with her when I want some. So I just turn around and go to sleep. I play with her through out the day with funny sex txt and squeeze her but when ever I'm behind her (I'm a butt guy ) but at night she's a cold fish. It's been going on for so long that I try not to make advance's at her in bed just to give her a dose of her own medicine. Guy's are stupid HUH
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I sometimes tease my own spouse but whenever I'm preggy.. nothing happens in bed because 1. I'm not in the mood. 2. whenever he even gets me the slightest bit excited via touch or just kissing.. the unborn always moves around which tends to make me nauseous. (If that's how you even spell it...) and 3... I'm afraid of going into labor early... lol.. but those are just my reasons... and it's normally when I'm preggy that he doesn't get anything.
do women tease on purpose knowing their not gonna give it up ?
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Dean: I'm so archaic and ancient, that I always thought texting was something my son's and all of their college and high school aged friends did. They literally had to teach old Dad about that aspect of a cell phone, among others!

When and if another relationship ensues, then thanks to you and the TAM Community for that suggestion. Because even from an "Old Fart," that sounds like an absolutely fun thing to do!

I'm certainly a believer that an old dog definitely can be taught new tricks!
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I'm not at all proud to say Ive done this with my stbxh. I think I did it because subconsciously I knew I didn't have to have sex with him at those times. Other times I did it because I was horny then but lost it when we got home. I've always been a 1-3 times a day kinda gal but horrible sex wears on a woman really badly, especially after you've tried from the beginning of the relationship to teach him how to be better in bed.(I'm not at all saying that's your issue, just stating why mine got to that point)
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My Wifey is playful during the day with dirty txt and talks a lil nasty with close frenz when we're out but when we go to bed , , , NOTHING ! ! ! I'm like WTF she talks the talk but don't walk the walk Do any of you lady's do this and WHY It's so frustrating especially when I hear her talking with her frenz like she's a porn star and thinking in my head ur full off caca

Do you respond to her texts?
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And then again, my STBXW didn't exactly avail the power of the text toward me. She used texting a heck of a lot more than I ever did during our relationship, almost as much as all of the kids. I'd kind of like to think that other than to the kids, that it wasn't to some other guy! But with all of her rampant FB time and worldly travels, it really wouldn't come as a shock to me!
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do women tease on purpose knowing their not gonna give it up ?
I don't know about other women but during pregnancy i do it to let him know I still find him very attractive.
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My Wifey is playful during the day with dirty txt and talks a lil nasty with close frenz when we're out but when we go to bed , , , NOTHING ! ! ! I'm like WTF she talks the talk but don't walk the walk Do any of you lady's do this and WHY It's so frustrating especially when I hear her talking with her frenz like she's a porn star and thinking in my head ur full off caca


This is exactly what my ex husband did to me.... for 23 years. We did have sex...once a week... like clockwork. But all the other times, he talked all macho like he was a sex machine. All you can do is NOT roll your eyes in front of other people and keep trying to figure out what does it for her.
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Maybe this is how she ramps herself up and keeps sex on her mind? When you talk to her about it, what does she say? Has her sex drive always been this way or has it changed over time?
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No, I don't.

If I talk the talk I walk the walk.
i'm with her ladyship on this one - if I say I wanna do it, it means I wanna do it!!!
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My Wifey is playful during the day with dirty txt and talks a lil nasty with close frenz when we're out but when we go to bed , , , NOTHING ! ! ! I'm like WTF she talks the talk but don't walk the walk Do any of you lady's do this and WHY It's so frustrating especially when I hear her talking with her frenz like she's a porn star and thinking in my head ur full off caca

Why is she talking about her sex life with her friends?
I don't discuss my sex life with my friends, it's none of their business & what happens between my husband, stays between us.
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