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Old 06-07-2012, 12:54 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Well Ladies if you get tired of your husband just start reading these books. You will really hate him then!!
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Well Ladies if you get tired of your husband just start reading these books. You will really hate him then!!
I planned on getting this books... not to have negative feelings toward my man.. but to read them too him and see what we make of it...
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Old 06-07-2012, 06:30 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Well Ladies if you get tired of your husband just start reading these books. You will really hate him then!!
we just got the book and I glanced through it some.

kinda on the fence seems like its all about control and power mixed with s&m and pain the main dude if into causing sexuall pain.

just remember its fiction.and don't base your marriage on fiction. if you want your husband to cause you pain and spank you then comunicate it to him.


but I think you like that the dude is confident and carries himself in a manner that is pure alpha.


maybe try some role play with this aspect.

again I just glanced through it so maybe I'm off base. now go homw and get a spanking you bad girl!!!!!!
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Old 06-07-2012, 06:47 AM   #5 (permalink)
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I keep hearing about these books. Any good?
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Old 06-07-2012, 10:16 AM   #6 (permalink)
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I was at Costco the other day and seen these books on the table...I skimmed thru the pages and gacked everytime I read this chick referring to herself as "my inner goddess"...plus I cant believe this is whats passing for erotica...

Get the Anne Rice Sleeping Beauty trilogy. Its set in a fantasy Medieval time, has BDSM, maledom, femdom, bi, you name it and its HOT.
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At least it doesn't have Mormon Vampires. Or does it?
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Old 06-07-2012, 10:24 AM   #9 (permalink)
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My wife and I have talked about her reading this series. I think the reviews are about 50/50 toward the good/bad. I think my wife would be okay with it and enjoy it right up to the section where he takes her in a bathroom stall and first pulls her tamp** out to do the deed.
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The basic concept is the same as any gothic romance, Harlequin romance or beach-reading "bodice-ripper." Virginal, innocent girl/incredibly good-looking, rich, powerful man/love-hate attraction, compulsion.... BUT with the twist of being blatantly BDSM. Otherwise, same old story line. Enjoyable beach reading when you don't really want to think too hard and enjoy the titillation.
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Old 06-07-2012, 12:16 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Just read them he does start all out being a control freak but Love leads him to the side of the light. Its a great book on how love and compromise makes everything so much better. I promise you guys will enjoy these books.

Love always prevails. You think he has problems but she does too. I was shocked at how willing and stupid the female role was in the first book. However she sticks to her guns about not wanting the S&M with him. It tares him up and he realizes that he doesnt want it anymore if he can't have her.
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Old 06-07-2012, 01:33 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Someone just emailed me bootleg copies of these to upload to my kindle... I haven't started them yet (have to finish the book I'm reading now first), but I'm curious to see what all the hype is about.
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Get the Anne Rice Sleeping Beauty trilogy. Its set in a fantasy Medieval time, has BDSM, maledom, femdom, bi, you name it and its HOT.

I ordered that book from Amazon and seem to have misplaced it. Darn.

Some of my favorite erotica is from Anais Nin. Soo hot.


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Someone just emailed me bootleg copies of these to upload to my kindle...
Haha. Don'tcha just love that we now live in an era where people are bootlegging books online? Sign of the times.

I am kind of on the fence on whether I want to read 50 Shades or not. I love hot literature like that BUT I am not at all into BDSM. Not my cup of tea.
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Go on, Jellybeans, you know you want to.

I even chimed in my opinion on the book here at the The Onion. I'm the white guy in the middle:

'Fifty Shades Of Grey' Series Reaches 10 Million Sales | The Onion - America's Finest News Source | American Voices
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Haha. Don'tcha just love that we now live in an era where people are bootlegging books online? Sign of the times.

I am kind of on the fence on whether I want to read 50 Shades or not. I love hot literature like that BUT I am not at all into BDSM. Not my cup of tea.
Ha! I have to say, it's the first time I've received a bootlegged book! Seemed odd, but heck it's like borrowing it from a friend, right?? almost?? kinda??
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