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Old 06-16-2012, 01:20 PM   #1 (permalink)
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I love time to myself. No, really, I LOVE time to myself. A weekend alone is a little gift from God to me. Time to read, clean out my closet, watch crappy Lifetime movies, whatever.

So when I found out that this weekend's Boy Scout campout was girl-free, being Father's Day and all, I was delighted.

DELIGHTED.

And it's been less than 24 hours and ...I miss him like crazy.

Dammit.
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Old 06-16-2012, 01:33 PM   #2 (permalink)
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HAHAH I am the same way! Although, a weekend without kids WITH Hubs is divine.

But yea, I'd feel the same. hahaha.
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Old 06-16-2012, 01:52 PM   #3 (permalink)
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LOL I know what you mean. Hubby had a sleep study this past Sunday. I hated it. Not because I had to deal with the kids alone, but because I MISSED him. I hate being apart from him overnight.
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Old 06-16-2012, 02:13 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Ah, it sucks when you miss them after you're all set out to have some quality alone Girl Time.
The Husband has been gone since 5/1, we have many months to go & let's just say that after he gets home, it will be a long time before there will be any Girl Time wknds.
I have plans for those wknds.
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When my wife takes the kids and goes someplace, for the first day/night/day I'm in heaven. After that it's hell.
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I love time to myself. No, really, I LOVE time to myself. A weekend alone is a little gift from God to me. Time to read, clean out my closet, watch crappy Lifetime movies, whatever.

So when I found out that this weekend's Boy Scout campout was girl-free, being Father's Day and all, I was delighted.

DELIGHTED.

And it's been less than 24 hours and ...I miss him like crazy.

Dammit.
Yep, mine was gone all week and I was looking forward to me time and all I did was miss him.
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Old 06-16-2012, 04:32 PM   #7 (permalink)
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I love time to myself. No, really, I LOVE time to myself. A weekend alone is a little gift from God to me. Time to read, clean out my closet, watch crappy Lifetime movies, whatever.

So when I found out that this weekend's Boy Scout campout was girl-free, being Father's Day and all, I was delighted.

DELIGHTED.

And it's been less than 24 hours and ...I miss him like crazy.

Dammit.
That is always the way it is with me.
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Old 06-16-2012, 06:19 PM   #8 (permalink)
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That's how it is with me too! First relationship I've been in where I don't enjoy every second apart.
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Old 06-18-2012, 05:03 AM   #9 (permalink)
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Sounds alot like love My new partner works away 3 weeks at a time & home for 1 week,it's so hard-I miss him so much & skype makes me miss him more because I can see him but not touch him He is due home in 4days
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Married almost 21 years and I feel the exact same way.
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Old 06-18-2012, 09:25 AM   #11 (permalink)
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I can do ok for a few days...well, until its time to go to bed. I have to be touching him at night for some reason or I can't sleep. My first marriage I would sleep as close to the edge of the bed as I could without falling off just so I WOULDN'T touch him but this time around I need that contact or I'm not quite complete or at peace.
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I fail miserably if having to sleep without him! Last time I was away, I had delusions of grandeur, that it'd be different this time and I'd get lots of good sleep. Turns out that that snoring of his has become a lullaby to me. Even if I do sometimes prod him to roll onto his side during the night lol.
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Old 06-18-2012, 08:39 PM   #13 (permalink)
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I love time to myself. No, really, I LOVE time to myself. A weekend alone is a little gift from God to me. Time to read, clean out my closet, watch crappy Lifetime movies, whatever.

So when I found out that this weekend's Boy Scout campout was girl-free, being Father's Day and all, I was delighted.

DELIGHTED.

And it's been less than 24 hours and ...I miss him like crazy.

Dammit.
Love is in the air..... good to have a positive thread!
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Old 06-19-2012, 11:22 AM   #14 (permalink)
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The first time I took the boys to Boy Scout camp my wife had a couple of the other moms over and they downed a couple bottles of wine. I started getting drunk texts about 1AM. Very dirty texts. haha. The other moms took her phone and were texting all this stuff. The other adult I was tenting with was like WTH is with your phone?

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Old 06-19-2012, 11:26 AM   #15 (permalink)
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Hmmmm! I must be on a totally different wave link. I guess this tells me a lot about our relationship.
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