If I had a really really good, strong relationship I'd probably try it because he asked me to, but honestly it sounds disgusting. I have no problem with swallowing, but drinking out of a glass. . . yuk. First of all the stuff is kind of viscous so it's not exactly going to pour out like water. She'd have to work to get it out of the glass. Then while she's working at it she'd notice that the consistency is startlingly similar to phlegm. There's a lot of time to get the ol' stomach churning.
I'm an enthusiastic giver of BJ's and have no problems swallowing...and up until I read this post I considered myself pretty open to anything sexual with DH. But if he asked me this, I'm pretty sure I'd refuse, only because I KNOW I'd gag.
Plus I don't see the point...isn't the sexual thrill for the guy the feeling of coming in her mouth?
okay youd refuse, no biggie- it aint my bag either
but would you berate your husband for asking, would you get offended, would you laugh at him, etc?
I'm an enthusiastic giver of BJ's and have no problems swallowing...and up until I read this post I considered myself pretty open to anything sexual with DH. But if he asked me this, I'm pretty sure I'd refuse, only because I KNOW I'd gag.
Plus I don't see the point...isn't the sexual thrill for the guy the feeling of coming in her mouth?
I think it's important to dig deeper to figure out what exactly the sexual thrill is. It sounds like you assume the thrill is due to the physical sensation of coming in her mouth. For some maybe that is true. I can still remember that sensation and it is definitely awesome. But for others the thrill is much more than that. For some, the thrill is about power and submissiveness and a woman who will do anything for her man, perhaps even things she doesn't want to do. That kind of power can be intoxicating. And the feeling of dominance from getting her to drink it from a glass would be 10x that of a simple bj.
well as an experiment I'm going to ask my wife if she's be willing to do this in a serious manner tonight and see how she reacts (I would let her off the hook though, lol)
I'm 42 now and I just think life is too short to hold back on desires
I won't ask a billionaire for a couple of extra million laying around because I am realistic, but if I think I were to explain to my wife I would find it exciting if she swallowed my jizz in a glass that she would either politely say no or actually go for it. I wouldn't know unless I spoke up.
I think my GF would want to know WHY this was a turn-on for me, but she'd likely go for it. But as with the others, I'd say to just ask. If you can't talk to your partner about sex, who can you talk to about it?
If my husband asked me such a thing, 1st of all I would be shocked, cause he just isn't wild & crazy like that...wish he was... then I would likely laugh outloud, asking what THAT would do for him...I'd get the most enjoyment out of such an answer... even saying ..."if you can explain this to me... then I'll be game & do it "..... At least once...likely I'd choke it down - like KathrntheGreat's response, that has the consistency of phlegm. Not exactly a joy -but if it turned him on...sure !
I wouldn't berate unless he made it a very big deal or sulked about it. But I would definitely question why he was into this...maybe together think of something else that could possibly give him the same thrill and not trigger the gag reflex.
So I get your point, no harm in asking....if it's asked delicately
very important, OP's reaction to a no is very important
anything else you ask from that point will be tainted if you become a baby about it
I'm a woman and I'd try it...not saying I'd be successful. In a loving/giving/sharing relationship like you and Mrs. Seawolf have, I wouldn't even want to know WHY (unless he felt like divulging).The fact that a loving partner asked is all I would need to know.
HOW would you ask? The same way you ask your wife to try anything new (new position, new toys, etc.) Am assuming you're not a selfish baby who's going to whine or continue goading/harassing her to try it if she says "no."
If my husband asked me such a thing, 1st of all I would be shocked, cause he just isn't wild & crazy like that...wish he was... then I would likely laugh outloud, asking what THAT would do for him...I'd get the most enjoyment out of such an answer... even saying ..."if you can explain this to me... then I'll be game & do it "..... At least once...likely I'd choke it down - like KathrntheGreat's response, that has the consistency of phlegm. Not exactly a joy -but if it turned him on...sure !
I know I would laugh but then I'm like that. I would make a joke about adding some coffee first to the cream. He'd probably laugh too.
I can't picture my hubby asking for this though. I think he's just grateful there's a complete happy ending for him each time.
I know I would laugh but then I'm like that. I would make a joke about adding some coffee first to the cream. He'd probably laugh too.
I can't picture my hubby asking for this though. I think he's just grateful there's a complete happy ending for him each time.
We'd definitely be too... I will surely be sharing this entertaining thread question to him tonight, would do it now but too many kids hanging around.
I will ask him if doing such a thing would make him feel more hotly craved somehow, to drink his juices so he could watch. I'm absolutely positive this would hold zero allure for him... for a long time he didn't even want to watch me going down on him for goodness sakes. He got over that!
As for me....I'd ask.... cause I would ENJOY the answer, I would jump on anything to get my husband to talk about what turns him on. I am more of the sexual talker between us.
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too... I will surely be sharing this entertaining thread question to him tonight, would do it now but too many kids hanging around. 
