Ok, I have a bit of a delicate question for the women here. I'll try not to get too TMI, but my apologies if I cross the line. My question is in regards to finishing BJs. Mrs Seawolf is an enthusiastic provider of blowjobs and always swallows. Usually she gives me a BJ two or three times a week. Now for the delicate part. Lately I've been thinking about having her finish by using her hands and having me.....er, shoot into a glass. I'm sure you can figure out the rest.
Now, I'm not afraid to ask her to do this, but I would like to be sure I'm successful in getting her to try it. So my question to the women here is what would your reaction be, and how best should I pose the request to maximize my chances of success? Posted via Mobile Device
If you're married, and you have a good, intimate relationship with your wife (you did say that she is enthusiastic, always swallows, and gives you 2 - 3 BJ a week), then you should simply let her know what you desire with a HUMBLE request.
... BUT you must be willing to accept that it may be something that she may not want to do or may not understand why you want it so badly, and you MUST accept whatever she says ... even a no - especially a no ... with GOOD grace.
By asking with a humble heart and accepting whatever transpires with grace and showing appreciation for what she does currently do, you add additional solid layers in your relational foundation together, and you may find her more receptive to the idea in future even if she says no now.
Wow! Post a question and leave for a day and come back to this! Thanks for the comments. I suppose I should answer a couple questions and clarify a few points.
First, to those of you who said I should recognize I'm a lucky guy and not rock the boat, I pose this question: how do you think I got to be such a lucky guy? Look, I'm lucky, and I married a terrific partner, but these things just don't fall in your lap either. I've always been pretty clear that a strong somewhat envelope pushing sexual relationship was a requirement of mine for marriage. There were no surprises on this, and she didn't surprise me with the wedding ring flannel nightgown switcheroo either. That said, I ave routinely pushed the boundaries of what we do over time, so that my bride of 25 ish years ago would definitely blush at the things she does, and likes today. Everything we do is within the confines of our marriage, we don't hurt each other, and she won't give me anal. Otherwise, it's been game on!
So, I'm not worried about asking her, in fact I will, but I also know this one is going to be tricky. But let's face it, my record is like 10 and 1, so I'm thinking my odds going in are at least 50%, I'm just making the best use of advisors that I can to pull this off. So to speak.
As for the why? Good question, and a perfect reason why I came here. I might not have had an answer had you guys not asked, and I want to be thoughtful and honest. Pretty hard to do when youre already a little nervous. My answer? Probably not what you'd expect. I saw the suggestions that I'm a porn guy, or that I want to dominate my partner and see her submission. Please. Ya, I like porn, especially with Mrs Seawolf naked at my side, but I can say I've never seen this in porn. As for dominating her, I don't really need that, I'm pretty alpha already, and we've played Dom/sub games. They're ok, but I actually prefer to be sub when we do it, so that's not it either.
The truth is, I find a woman who is consumed by sexual passion and lust to be incredibly erotic. Whether she is so turned on that she is making me do something or doing something tome I really don't care. The idea that in the throes of passion she would drink my cum from a glass, is quite erotic. To me at least. And for the poster that asked, yes returning the favor, we're she to ask ( and were it physically possible) would be equally hot to me.
So there you have it, let me know if you have other thoughts Posted via Mobile Device
Hi, I've been lurking for some time and this thread caught my attention.
Firstly, I am a female who has done what the OP is requesting. It was by own request however. It may sound odd to most here, but as the OP is saying, it has nothing to do with domination/humiliation or porn. In my case, I am completely turned on by my boyfriend and his cum. I am just as turned on swallowing as he is. I want every bit of him I can get, every way I can get it. When I swallow, I feel I get to keep a piece of him inside me, the result of the pleasure I brought him. It's very intimate. Drinking it out of a shotglass is incredibly erotic for me, as I have a visual of it, and can get a good look of his eyes as they watch me. When I brought it up with him, he was utterly thrilled and turned on by the idea. And ever since we have come up with a couple of more creative ways for me to get my "treat". It's not for everyone, but it's possible that the OP's wife may accept his request without being disgusted.
I will say though that my SO and I share a deep bond and connection, and I am incredibly attracted to him. The thought had never crossed my mind in previous relationships. My only advice to the OP is to bring it up and also ask what fantasies his wife has and see if he can fulfill them for her. Also, if she refuses, simply accept it and push no further.
I'm a pretty open person regarding sex with my spouse and one of the things I don't mind is swallowing. To me, it's a lot less messy than him doing it all over the place and it's a turn on for both of us.
However, him asking me to hold a glass as he cums into it and having me drink it..not so sure that would be a turn on for me.
Whatever floats your boat though. Some people have agreed to drink a lot worse things..whatever trips your trigger I guess....along with your wives. Just keep it mind..it doesn't exacty taste like chocolate milk!!
By asking me something like that is, to me, no longer love or affection. It would tell me you objectify me, rather than appreciate my love and out of which is my desire to please you sexually. The suggestion/request (in addition to asking on a forum) would tell me you have put much thought into degrading me from wife and lover to blowup doll. Such a request would bother me so much that the end of our marriage will shortly follow because I'd never get over the awful realization that you have no respect for me at all. I am no prude and do things I don't particularly like or enjoy. One of those is the BJ itself (and finishing him), but I do it because I looooove how much he loooooves it. That request would be the end because it has zero to do with his pleasure. It is nothing more than something he came up with to belittle me.
well as an experiment I'm going to ask my wife if she's be willing to do this in a serious manner tonight and see how she reacts (I would let her off the hook though, lol)
I asked but couldn't keep a straight face
her reply was that she would rather do that than get a dirty sanchez
Well by your answer SeaWolf, I guess it's worth asking her... but to be honest, I think it's going to be hard for her to drink the cum once it's in the glass anyway. Most of it will likely stick to the sides because I'm sure you won't ejaculate enough to actually fill it up. Even if it were just a shot glass, I still don't think the physics of it all are going to add up in the final delivery. She may get a little out of it but it will pour slow and still probably much of it will stick to the glass sides.
She'll be getting a much bigger mouthful going the standard way IMO.
That request would be the end because it has zero to do with his pleasure. It is nothing more than something he came up with to belittle me.
I have to agree. To say It's not for me would be an understatement. I find it very off-putting for reasons I'll keep to myself, because this isn't my thread. But whatever works for y'all is fine with me.
Well by your answer SeaWolf, I guess it's worth asking her... but to be honest, I think it's going to be hard for her to drink the cum once it's in the glass anyway. Most of it will likely stick to the sides because I'm sure you won't ejaculate enough to actually fill it up. Even if it were just a shot glass, I still don't think the physics of it all are going to add up in the final delivery. She may get a little out of it but it will pour slow and still probably much of it will stick to the glass sides.
She'll be getting a much bigger mouthful going the standard way IMO.
It doesn't stick to the shotglass as much as you think, or pour that slowly.
And for the little bit that does, well you can use your imagination.
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Re: A Delicate Question 
I hope Mrs. Seawolf is game! 
