Everyone is different. I see absolutely nothing gross about it.
Knowing that it's a product of pleasure I brought him makes it sexy to me. I could never think of it as gross, so swallowing it this way is simply erotic to me.
I understand it's not for everyone, but I see no need to get judgemental simply because it's not your cup of tea.
OP has already come out and explained his feelings.
It's got nothing to do with objectifiying. They are sexually adventerous. Just because some of us aren't doesn't mean we can just start making up what motivates his desires. He's already stated this is NOT about power.
And OP can your wife teach a class or something? Maybe instruct my wife so that I can have half the spark you guys have?
Oh my...I don't know if I could do it or not. I swallow, have always done so and it doesn't bother me, but I have always squirmed at the thought of cooling semen and in thought, I think it would make me vomit. If he really, really wanted it, I would do it for him, but yeah I couldn't promise that I wouldn't vomit afterwards. Plus I tend to have him do it towards the back of my throat, past my taste buds because semen isn't always tasty.
The truth is, I find a woman who is consumed by sexual passion and lust to be incredibly erotic. Whether she is so turned on that she is making me do something or doing something tome I really don't care. The idea that in the throes of passion she would drink my cum from a glass, is quite erotic. To me at least. And for the poster that asked, yes returning the favor, we're she to ask ( and were it physically possible) would be equally hot to me.
Me & my hubs had a really good about this question last night sitting in the bathtub, trying to describe what you want to ask your wife, I was rolling up a storm getting to that part..... it was alot of fun. Thank you. I get alot of entertainment off this forum at times.
I think your reply makes sense, so long as you are a loving caring husband in all other ways...know & please your wife with sensual love making also... I wouldn't find the expressing this as objectifying or offending...I might think "Whoooaaaa" at first, laugh ... but then I would be daring.... and look upon it like an Erotic "Fear Factor" stint ....all in the game of love.
The idea with oral, surely, is to swallow as quickly as possible. Very few women actually like the taste / texture of semen, and 'deep throat' so as not to gag or show their dislke for the taste / texture of it to their partners. Actually drawing out the process in order to get her to drink it from a glass, in front of him, is pushing the boundaries way too far.
As much as this thread .. grossed me out.. and yes I threw up a lil in my mouth as well... I'm still going to ask H about this when he gets home.. lol. I'd never do it.. and it's gross imo... but that's my viewpoint... To those who are capable of stomaching something like that... good for you, just not my thing.. lol.
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Everyone is different. I see absolutely nothing gross about it.
Knowing that it's a product of pleasure I brought him makes it sexy to me. I could never think of it as gross, so swallowing it this way is simply erotic to me.
I understand it's not for everyone, but I see no need to get judgemental simply because it's not your cup of tea.
Nah, you're pretty gross and I truly hope this never becomes my regular cup of tea for sure.