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Old 06-19-2012, 07:23 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Ok, I have a bit of a delicate question for the women here. I'll try not to get too TMI, but my apologies if I cross the line. My question is in regards to finishing BJs. Mrs Seawolf is an enthusiastic provider of blowjobs and always swallows. Usually she gives me a BJ two or three times a week. Now for the delicate part. Lately I've been thinking about having her finish by using her hands and having me.....er, shoot into a glass. I'm sure you can figure out the rest.

Now, I'm not afraid to ask her to do this, but I would like to be sure I'm successful in getting her to try it. So my question to the women here is what would your reaction be, and how best should I pose the request to maximize my chances of success?
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Old 06-19-2012, 07:28 AM   #2 (permalink)
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I'm not a lady, but man you have no idea how lucky you already are. A wife that finishes AND SWALLOWS every time??? And 3 times a week???

Do NOT rock this boat!!!
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Old 06-19-2012, 07:42 AM   #3 (permalink)
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I'm not a lady, but man you have no idea how lucky you already are. A wife that finishes AND SWALLOWS every time??? And 3 times a week???

Do NOT rock this boat!!!
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Old 06-19-2012, 07:52 AM   #4 (permalink)
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As an avid lover and giver of BJs, I have to tell you that as much as I enjoy doing it, if DH were to ask me to do that, I'd balk. Lol

Don't rock the boat covers it nicely.
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Old 06-19-2012, 08:23 AM   #5 (permalink)
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LOL...could I have mine with a healthy shot of kahlua??

Seriously, I love giving bj's from beginning to wonderful completion, I don't mind the texture, taste, whatever makes most women stop just before completion. Drinking it out of a glass though...seems kinda...cold and unappealing.
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Old 06-19-2012, 08:31 AM   #6 (permalink)
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If my hubby asked to do that...I would "try"...but no guarantees that I wouldnt puke. For some reason the thought of visually seeing thick gooey cum inside a cup wouldnt be very appealing to me..but heck, why not! Lol
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Old 06-19-2012, 11:15 AM   #7 (permalink)
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i would much rather them just drink from the source.
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Old 06-19-2012, 11:18 AM   #8 (permalink)
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Seriously, this is why the ladies are all tired of their men watching so much porn.
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Old 06-19-2012, 11:22 AM   #9 (permalink)
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Do NOT rock this boat!!!
why not?

asking is fine, as long as he isn't pouty, callous or upset if she doesn't go for it

maybe she'll like the idea/get turned about it herself or simply wish to fulfill a fantasy of his because she loves him

you don't ask you don't get

it's stupid to hold back your desires, you can't expect every one to be given, but it's almost certainly not going to happen if he doesn't bring it up
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Old 06-19-2012, 11:26 AM   #10 (permalink)
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Seriously, this is why the ladies are all tired of their men watching so much porn.
I agree. Things that I used to find beautiful and natural are becoming less appealing to me these days...

OP, I really wouldn't rock the boat on this one, if I were you.
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i have not even the slightest clue what the appeal of that would be
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Well, it's kind of an extreme power trip. There's nothing all that pleasurable about it for either side. But if you have a bdsm or power exchange kind of relationship then this might be a good test....a good way to humiliate show how much you're in charge. But in the absence of that kind of relationship I just don't see anything sexual about it.
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Old 06-19-2012, 11:34 AM   #13 (permalink)
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Yeah, I agree with most others here.

Love giving my guy BJs, but drink his jizz from a jar? You've lost me there, my friend.

That said, this is just me... and to be honest, me and my H are pretty open and it's quite possible that if he suggested it (in a totally non-pushy way, of course) it might actually happen.

Only way you'll know is to ask, but make sure you don't make her feel like she's not giving 'enough'.
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Old 06-19-2012, 11:35 AM   #14 (permalink)
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Ok, I have a bit of a delicate question for the women here. I'll try not to get too TMI, but my apologies if I cross the line. My question is in regards to finishing BJs. Mrs Seawolf is an enthusiastic provider of blowjobs and always swallows. Usually she gives me a BJ two or three times a week. Now for the delicate part. Lately I've been thinking about having her finish by using her hands and having me.....er, shoot into a glass. I'm sure you can figure out the rest.

Now, I'm not afraid to ask her to do this, but I would like to be sure I'm successful in getting her to try it. So my question to the women here is what would your reaction be, and how best should I pose the request to maximize my chances of success?
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Would you reciprocate with her um..juices?
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Old 06-19-2012, 11:37 AM   #15 (permalink)
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Sounds like some Max Hardcore ish right there...

Don't look a gifthorse in the mouth - as a lady I'd feel strange if my husband asked me to do this...

I'd wonder what was going on behind the request... Boredom? A need to "dominate", porn use, affair?? A woman's mind has a way of trying to make sense like this. At least mine does. (It drives me insane)! :/

I'm sure by cruising this site you are able to see men who are married, not getting sex, much less BJs, and far much less, BJs to completion, even farther less, 3x a week!

I have a feeling you know how your wife will feel about it, thus your question - to get ideas on increasing your chances of success in convincing her to do it.

I'm not a guy, so I really just don't get the point, but whatever floats your boat. I don't suppose there's any harm in asking if you feel you can handle the rejection and/or her curiosity...
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