Re: Private lap dance at strip club
Yes, he spoke to the client following this event and he doesn't remember much either. In fact, my husband gave me his client's phone number so I could text him and he was very willing to answer any questions I had. His client did say he got one lap dance that cost over $400, and there was one charge for $460. They were both very drunk or drugged. Both my husband and I decided not to fight the charges as we'd be fighting an uphill battle. They had a copy of his (2) credit cards that were used and his license, and they did a fairly decent job of forging his signature (although we can tell it's not his). They also made a fake imprint of his thumb on a VIP "rules sheet", again with his forged signature. If we fought this his name would be out there and it would prolong the stress and, quite honestly, the issue is not the money at all, as I know he got ripped off. I'm not upset about the strip club....he goes as a goof with his co-workers....both men and women....once every 2 years after their Christmas party, if that (that ended a few years ago). Sure this time I got a little angry and was going to bust his balls for a while, but then I'd get over it and tease him about it. It's the intimacy that kills me with this one. I try to put myself in his position and think about me being drunk and a naked guy rubbing all over me and I know I would just be "ewww gross" and think nothing of it. I just keep picturing him all smiles and in his glory and loving every minute of it. I have to keep in mind that if he was that drunk (or drugged) it's likely he was pretty out of it in the vip room. Even the thought of a woman (possibly my daughter's age!) touching his hair, and nibbling on his ear makes me sick, but I have no idea if this happened. My concern is that he does remember some fondling and he's not telling because he knows I'll freak out. I've been on other web sites where men claim that anything and everything happens in the vip room including all kinds of touching, but I don't know if it's fiction or not. I'm not so concerned about the drinking because my husband can handle his drinking and NEVER blacks out. The crazy thing is that the next morning he wasn't even hung over just extremely tired, so that makes me think he was drugged. I guess I would love to hear from another guy if these private lap dances are all that great, or if it's just a longer version of what you get out on the floor, and a lot more expensive. My husband is bashful and wouldn't be quick to grope a stripper, but do you think it's possible she would put his hands on her b**bs thinking she'd get a bigger tip or more dances? Also, if my husband did fall asleep in a chair at the club or in the vip room, would they just leave him there? The entire event is so sketchy, and that's what's hard to get over.