Re: My husband's breast fetish. Is it weird?
It is a little weird and VERY incensitive.
As a guy I, totally enjoy admiring the body parts of women. I believe most men are the same. Having said that it is another to oogle women's ta-ta's without regards to your w's feelings. Call it fake or whatever. Restraint in this case is call respect not being Fake.
Personally his criticisms sound more passive aggressive than constructive.
I know of one couple where the wife would point out hot girls for him H publicly and they would make comments about it. Believe it or not have what you would call a great body but, confident in their relationship and in her skin. Most women are not that way.
Perhaps you have made comments in the past about a women's breasts and he has made the assumption that discussing other womens breasts is ok. Since you don't think he is a jerk perhaps he does not know how much it hurts you. Some of us are clueless others just are insensitive.
I don't think you will change his interest in breasts but, he should act in a manner that is respectful of you and your feelings.
My wife recently commented on me checking out another women while at the beach. Candidly, i was probably looking more than i should have but, thought I was not being obvious. Regardless she called me out and I will be more cognizant in the future.