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post #31 of 87 (permalink) Old 06-28-2012, 08:52 PM
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Re: My husband's breast fetish. Is it weird?

I hate intruding into the Ladies Lounge, but...

what a jerk!

I notice women with nice breasts (and, more often, nice butts) all day, every day.
Know how often I mention that to my girlfriend? NEVER.

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first year down, i hate to break this to you, but you are living in a fantasy world if you think your husband is only interested in your bountiful rack. I have been married for three years and thought my husband was so happy with me and only wanted or felt the need to look at my boobs (I am a 34D) but last week i found on his iphone hundreds of downloads of women with HUGE HUGE boobs. things like 34JJJ or 36K and ridiculous sizes like this. so if you think your hubby is an exception to the rule you might want to think again because this is what i thought about my husband and he has proved me so wrong and totally burst my fairy tale bubble of what i thought our marriage was..
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I'd start commenting on men.

"oooh his package looks HUGE! He's probably like, 10 inches, don't you think babe?"

"Omg! That guy's bulge is amazing. Lucky man! "

Then I'd tell my husband to STFU.
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Re: My husband's breast fetish. Is it weird?

Jennifer:

Your husband is being disrespectful.

Also, his roving eyes suggests he is a candidate for an affair.

My STBEH used to comment on other women and preen himself in front of other women all the time.

It annoyed me, but not being the jealous possessive type I let it go.

I later learned that my husband was having and affair, addicted to porn and getting lap dances at men's clubs.

Don't overlook this.

Will he go to counseling about it?
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Men are attracted to big breasts and a .7 hip to waist ratio. These kind of things are going to catch our eyes. We're chemically predispositioned to be attracted to having sex with a woman that will be in good physical shape to produce and feed babies. That much is normal.

Going beyond noticing is within the realm of rationally controlable behavior and his lack of control shows disrespect.

And he's a fricken moron. Want a D cup? Try a 34D bra. It's pretty much the same size as a 36C, the cups are actually the same it's just a smaller band and the cups will be a little closer together in front. Voila, you have D cup breasts!

I have another suggestion. You might remind him that he can look at anyone's breasts he likes, but yours are the only one he gets to touch and he only gets to do that when you're attracted enough to him that you allow it. Tell him that by discussing other women's breasts, he makes himself unattractive to you.

It's his job to attract you, and if you're attracted to him you might tend to try to be more attractive to him - maybe do something like wear push-up bras that will make your breasts look bigger and create cleavage... Or if you're not attracted to him, you're going to flatten em out with a sports bra.

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first year down, i hate to break this to you, but you are living in a fantasy world if you think your husband is only interested in your bountiful rack. I have been married for three years and thought my husband was so happy with me and only wanted or felt the need to look at my boobs (I am a 34D) but last week i found on his iphone hundreds of downloads of women with HUGE HUGE boobs. things like 34JJJ or 36K and ridiculous sizes like this. so if you think your hubby is an exception to the rule you might want to think again because this is what i thought about my husband and he has proved me so wrong and totally burst my fairy tale bubble of what i thought our marriage was..


I find it incredibly amusing that you believe you can speak with authority about a man and marriage you know nothing about. Do people actually believe that their marriages represent all husbands and wives?

My husband likes real breasts, my dear. He is disgusted by freakishly large boobs. Sorry that is obviously not the case with your hubby. It is quite obvious that your world is nothing like my own, so you cannot relate.

You sound like a woman saying that all husbands cheat just because hers did. Your experience is not the so called "rule" you are nattering about. It must be hard to live with bitterness and jealousy of people who have happy marriages.
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first year down, i hate to break this to you, but you are living in a fantasy world if you think your husband is only interested in your bountiful rack. I have been married for three years and thought my husband was so happy with me and only wanted or felt the need to look at my boobs (I am a 34D) but last week i found on his iphone hundreds of downloads of women with HUGE HUGE boobs. things like 34JJJ or 36K and ridiculous sizes like this. so if you think your hubby is an exception to the rule you might want to think again because this is what i thought about my husband and he has proved me so wrong and totally burst my fairy tale bubble of what i thought our marriage was..
Noticing and admiring isn't the OP's problem. It is her husband's constant ogling and commenting that is the problem. It is rude, disrespectful and insensitive.

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I find it incredibly amusing that you believe you can speak with authority about a man and marriage you know nothing about. Do people actually believe that their marriages represent all husbands and wives?

My husband likes real breasts, my dear. He is disgusted by freakishly large boobs. Sorry that is obviously not the case with your hubby. It is quite obvious that your world is nothing like my own, so you cannot relate.

You sound like a woman saying that all husbands cheat just because hers did. Your experience is not the so called "rule" you are nattering about. It must be hard to live with bitterness and jealousy of people who have happy marriages.
Just to clarify... a "K" cup size CAN be real. And a true back ache to go with it.
Fortunately, my husband, tho he would prefer I went DOWN to a C or D cup, he realizes that isn't possible until I can get a reduction. So, while they are "freakishly large", they are very real, unfortunately.

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Just to clarify... a "K" cup size CAN be real. And a true back ache to go with it.
Fortunately, my husband, tho he would prefer I went DOWN to a C or D cup, he realizes that isn't possible until I can get a reduction. So, while they are "freakishly large", they are very real, unfortunately.
I'm with you on that one, Maricha. My double Ds are a pain in the back, too!

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I don't think most porn actresses have real boobs.

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I don't think most porn actresses have real boobs.
No, you are likely correct about that. I was just pointing out that a J or K cup size CAN be real. I know, because I am there. And I WISH I was down to C, D, or DD. But that is MY issue, not my husband's. He's happy with whatever size my breasts are.

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Jeepers! I thought I had too much with just having a D.

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I'm a 34G. Spent most my life hiding them. Now I just go with it and when I'm 40, I'm so reducing the crap out of them (so almost did this past year). My back doesn't hurt as of yet and I'm not sure they've actually caused any problems of a physical nature but psychologically I don't know what is up. A quarter of the population worships them, a quarter of the populations hate the crap out of them, a quarter of the population worships them, a quarter of the population is glad they don't have them.

Seriously, you can never make everyone happy. You have to get to a point where you love what you have, find someone who loves what you have and you love what they have and then be willing to say for better or worse and actually mean it.

Apparently, not an easy thing to do, regardless of cup or penis size.
Yea, really, it all comes down to YOU being happy with YOU. That's all that matters.

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No, you are likely correct about that. I was just pointing out that a J or K cup size CAN be real. I know, because I am there. And I WISH I was down to C, D, or DD. But that is MY issue, not my husband's. He's happy with whatever size my breasts are.
Roger that. Certainly very large boobs can be real, but in porno movies, boobs which are as large as yours are often fake.
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I also do not think your overreacting. Your husband is being rude, selfish and very disrespectful.

I'm very small chested, my husband is very satisfied with the way I look. I never seen him turn his head to look at other women. He's never looked at porn either on his computer. Rather he focuses his life on the children and I.

My ex h was the opposite. He was always putting me down making fun of me and how I looked. I was never good enough in his eyes. He was very unfaithful as well. I ended up leaving and a few years later I met my current husband. My ex had zero respect for me or any other woman. He see women only as sex objects and his servant. He expected me to play the role of June Cleaver, yet he thought he had the right to put me down, treat me very poorly(abuse) and have sex with other women.

I personally would not chose to stay with a man that acted like that. If he couldn't get his act together and be respectful, out the door I'd go. I'm assuming he has other issues as well.
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