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post #61 of 87 (permalink) Old 07-06-2012, 09:19 AM
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I realise we all agree that men and women prefer natural breasts but we also have to agree that a D cup is sexier than an A or B too!!
Nope, we don`t agree.

I`d say the opposite is sexier.

There are many many different people with many many different tastes.

Given the choice between a woman with D-cups and a woman with A-cups I choose the A-cups every time all else being equal.

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Years ago I cought a dude eye phuckin my then girlfriend. I asked what the hell he was starring at.

He gave me the wrong answer of "her tits"


He woke up a few minutes later, laying on the ground.
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Re: My husband's breast fetish. Is it weird?

I just think that one of the sexier features a woman can have is a nice pretty cleavage.

I find a nicely displayed cleavage very feminine and classy.

Look at Salma Hayek. How can't any woman see her as just elegant and striking.

Her breasts are to die for.
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I just think that one of the sexier features a woman can have is a nice pretty cleavage.

I find a nicely displayed cleavage very feminine and classy.

Look at Salma Hayek. How can't any woman see her as just elegant and striking.

Her breasts are to die for.
It seems like you are like your husband, you are obsessed with breasts. So there is really nothing to complain about I guess if he is looking at other womens breasts and their bra sizes.

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Sexiness has nothing to do with cup size. A woman who is confident of herself and her sexuality, who likes people both male and female, and who has a great attitude about life is pretty sexy whether she is an A, B, C, or D.

In real life--outside of the movies--real bodies come in all shapes and sizes. Women who would have been considered fat by today's standards were the beauties of their age. Women that had normal bodies without surgical enhancements were the consorts of kings. The French have long had a saying that the perfect breasts just fill a champagne glass--not a very big set of boobs there.

If you personally think large breasts are sexier, fine. But do not assume that we should all agree on what is your personal preference. Many men do *not* care about breast size; they love great legs, or a smooth abdomen, or even a big butt. It is so individualized--and even with these "preferences," all we are talking about is visual stimulation. Men with preferences date, fall in love with, and marry women who don't have those particular assets, b/c in the long run, how someone looks does not guarantee anything.

I'd much prefer the smaller breasts of my days as a runner. My legs were to die for, and they were the result of a lot of hard work, not a surgery or simple genetic gift I did nothing to earn. So I was proud of them. My boobs are just what my genetics gave me, so I can't take pride in that--I didn't earn 'em.

And I cannot imagine giving up nipple sensation for anything other than a medical reason (cancer, reduction b/c of back pain, etc). Wow. To think a man would prefer to look at a big boob over his wife having incredible pleasure from nipple stimulation. That's just creepy in my book.
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I guess I opened up a can of worms didn't I?

I know my husband is consumed with breast sizes. His dream girl is Christina Hendricks who has beautiful, full natural breasts, probably a DDD if you ask me.

He says he will try to tone down the ogling and the bra size questions. I don't expect him not to look but not all the time in front of me.

I am considering augmentation surgery before I turn 40.

I realise we all agree that men and women prefer natural breasts but we also have to agree that a D cup is sexier than an A or B too!!
Just FYI, Christina Hendricks boobs are not natural. Google her before and after pics. she used to be maybe a C cup and now all of a sudden is probably a DDD or EE. Not natural....
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Just a little boob humor to lighten the mood...

A woman walks in a bar and orders a beer.
The bartender fills the mug and slides it down the bar.
It hits the woman's boobs and splashes all over them...
The bartender goes over, retrieves the mug and licks the beer off her boobs.
Each time the woman calls for another beer this happens.
So after the third beer, a guy decides to help the bartender out.
The next time the bartender hit her boobs, the man
jumps up and starts to lick her breasts and she decks him!


He is lying on the floor moaning, "Jeez lady... Why do you let the bartender do it?"
"Helloooo!", says the woman, "He has a licker license!"

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me being a 36C
I have not read this entire thread, but your 36C are the perfect size! That's what I am and, trust me, anymore than that, is too big!

Feel good in your own skin and with what you have. If need be, keep them to yourself!!!

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Christina Hendrick's breasts are not natural.

You sound pretty obsessed with breasts yourself, OP.

And to Sisters359, a breast augmentation doesn't mean you have to give up sensation. I've had one with the incision under the breast and have lost no nipple sensation.
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Excuse me but Christina Hendricks is 100% natural.

Let's remember breasts change in size over a woman's lifetime.

Look at Susan Sarandon. She is very slim and she has to be a full D or DD. Google her and you can see that over the years she has gotten bustier. And there is no way she is fake, her breasts are very saggy. Nothing a good push up bra won't fix but it is a fact, breast size changes. She also has an incredible nice cleavage for 63 years old.

They say woman's bra sizes change 2 to 3 times during adulthood. It's just than we get complacent and don't get measured often enough.

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Obsessed with breasts = mysterious chromosonal condition called the "Y" chromosone. Uncurable.

I honestly don't think there's anything wrong with that. Even more so because it's not like you can even change it. Guys are totally obsessed with breasts. I would guess its like women's appreciation of male butts but multiplied times 100. (Women might disagree)

But he needs to be respectful. There should be limits. For instance, no ogling women in your presence. No comments, if you mind them. And so on.

Honesty is one thing. But you need to figure out the ground rules and keep it respectful. Some women might not mind such comments, but it would really hurt other women. And he needs to think of your feelings.
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Look at Susan Sarandon. She is very slim and she has to be a full D or DD.
Sure, there are some like that. But breasts are fat. So women with more body fat tend to have bigger breasts, and women with less body fat have smaller. To be both slim and have large breasts is unusual. Often it is due to surgery -- men's magazines are loaded with women like that. And the number of such surgeries in the US is very high. Of course some are naturally that way, but it is quite rare.
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They say woman's bra sizes change 2 to 3 times during adulthood. It's just than we get complacent and don't get measured often enough.
Mine changed once, a whole size smaller after nursing my first child.

I'll never have a decent size. Oh well, I don't mind anymore.
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sorry this is my first post on here i am a man with a bra fetish the difference with me is its not about the breasts its about shareing a private moment with only your wife your husband is given people like me a bad name num 1 by feeling your cuz bras just to see the cup size come on dude this is why woman thinks we are creeps and btw 36 C is outstanding
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Re: My husband's breast fetish. Is it weird?

Jennifer, I think your husband is rude and insensitive with his actions and comments. Women's bodies are beautiful, but he needs to be more aware of your feelings and treat you with respect. He sounds immature to me...Just my opinion.

What would he say if he read the replies on this thread? Maybe you should print them out and have him read them. What would he say?
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