Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: Central Virginia
Re: My husband's breast fetish. Is it weird?
Sexiness has nothing to do with cup size. A woman who is confident of herself and her sexuality, who likes people both male and female, and who has a great attitude about life is pretty sexy whether she is an A, B, C, or D.
In real life--outside of the movies--real bodies come in all shapes and sizes. Women who would have been considered fat by today's standards were the beauties of their age. Women that had normal bodies without surgical enhancements were the consorts of kings. The French have long had a saying that the perfect breasts just fill a champagne glass--not a very big set of boobs there.
If you personally think large breasts are sexier, fine. But do not assume that we should all agree on what is your personal preference. Many men do *not* care about breast size; they love great legs, or a smooth abdomen, or even a big butt. It is so individualized--and even with these "preferences," all we are talking about is visual stimulation. Men with preferences date, fall in love with, and marry women who don't have those particular assets, b/c in the long run, how someone looks does not guarantee anything.
I'd much prefer the smaller breasts of my days as a runner. My legs were to die for, and they were the result of a lot of hard work, not a surgery or simple genetic gift I did nothing to earn. So I was proud of them. My boobs are just what my genetics gave me, so I can't take pride in that--I didn't earn 'em.
And I cannot imagine giving up nipple sensation for anything other than a medical reason (cancer, reduction b/c of back pain, etc). Wow. To think a man would prefer to look at a big boob over his wife having incredible pleasure from nipple stimulation. That's just creepy in my book.