Join Date: Jun 2012
Location: I live in Ontario, Canada
My husband's breast fetish. Is it weird?
I am new to this site but I am embarrased to talk to my friends about this.
First off I have never felt like I was good enough for my husband, I weighed too much, didn't dress sexy enough, didn't exercise enough.
My husband (like alot of men) is obsessed with large breasts and loves cleavage. He mentions he loves Christina Hendricks, Sofia Vegera, etc.
Now he gets into the habit of bringing up breast sizes in front of me, he'll see a woman on TV or walking on the street and comment like, "Wow, she looks like a DD, lucky girl." What size do you think she is hun?
I have even caught him 2 times checking out other women's bras. We were at his 2nd cousin's (Who is in here 30's) for a swim. While he was taking our son to the bathroom to get changed, his cousin left a bra on the doorknob. He casually went over, looked at the tag, shrugged his shoulders and carried on. I asked him what the hell was that about, and he said he was just curious what her size was. He said "I knew she was a D. Ha Ha. I told him how embarrassed I was. He ust said if she didn't want anyone to see it then why did she leave it there?
I found this strange and an invasion of privacy. He told me to lighten up and said there are some guys he knows who used to steal the panties of girls from one night stands and guys are just curious that's all.
He even showed me web-sites of bra size statistics around the world and how the average size is a 36D and how me being a 36C could stand to be bigger.
He is a great guy, great husband and father but to me he is just a little too breast obsessed that's all.
Am I over-reacting?