07-11-2012, 11:21 PM
Join Date: Jul 2012
| | Re: Secrecy has destroyed my marriage as well as intimacy
what i am getting here is that he seems to be ashamed, and is now looking for attention in front of others who are obviously going to support him. which isnt bad. BUT, why not share with your wife first? I would be just as hurt as you to find all of this out. I would be more livid at the fact that he stood in front of our congragation and told all of them with no knowledge of it! how embarrased you must have felt. I cant imagine the other thigns he is hiding if these are all just now popping out. I can understand him not telling about he abandoned thing, thats probably difficult on his part. He definately needs to consider you in everything, after all, you are the one he is supposed to confide in first. dont get to down on yourself! you obviously tolerate many things, you are a grown woman and know what you need to do and will learn how to approach it!