07-19-2012, 12:37 AM
Join Date: Jan 2010
| | Feeling positive about my marriage
I am feeling positive about my marraige and I just wanted to post about good things.
I know there is a bad past with infedility (during the time we were seperated) and my husband not being able to express to me his remorse. He does express his guilt, but not often. There has been no infedilty since he moved back in, that I am sure. I am going to try to focus on the positive on that and try not to go crazy thinking of the what if's.
Hes 800 miles away so sure he could be sending me texts, cards and calling me while possibly lying to me...but if I don't have the proof, shouldn't I focus on the positive, rather than ruin what progress we are making by my constant fear of past returning?
My husband is so much more involved in the kids and all thier needs and our needs as a married couple than he was before seperation.
Our marriage anniversaries were always just another day, but this year he has planned a special trip. ONly telling me where we are going and some activities planned. Hes trying to keep the hotel a secret from me so it will be a suprise when we get there.